Well I went about a week without texting her and it was clear that I had nothing to lose by breaking the silence and texting her. She was a bit pissed with me at first but after a few texts she said that she wants to be friends. But you know what, I actually feel much better because now there is at least some closure.

She claims that we have different life goals and so forth was her reasoning. I am thinking that she has another guy in her life. Oh well, I tried.

What a crock of shit. FUck her, her loss.

noticed she started texting me less frequent and I could feel things dying. She drug me along for almost two months and she kept saying how busy she was etc. I should have manned up and told her to just call me when she isn't busy when we first started seeing each other. The problem was that I let her string me along through countless texts.

I wish if she wasn't that into me she would have just leveled with me and told me the truth. But it felt like she refused to just be open and honest and was instead content with just chatting with me through text and then just telling me how busy she was.

here is a new idea for you, girls don't usually reject guys directly, unless you are very direct with them, they will not be very direct with you, one flake, shame on her, 2 flakes shame one you, 3 flakes, get out while you can, she is obviously not interested, I don't care how good the excuse is tons of girls just naturally flake when they are not into you, they don't want to face the reality of conflict so they puss out as best as they can, still contact them if you really want to, but realize if you just meet enough women (do enough approaches), you are going to find girls that actually are into you, and it will take little to no game, just going up and chatting with them and not cock blocking yourself will be about 50% of the battle, you don't have to dance on your head or be super charming or good looking, you just have to find a girl who finds you specifically attractive, set a certain timeline (a goal) on how long to spend on her trying to close (fuck her) and if she doesn't make the timeline, meet new girls, don't stop contacting her all together (some girls just get cold feet due to asd reasons, and some girls just have other stuff going on and if you wait them out without being needy they will booty call you eventually), but you just gotta stop focusing on her, and look for newer girls that are more into you, you should be going out frequently to meet new women especially if you don't have any at all, instead of fixing problems with girls or thinking months of running in circles will do anything, just try to have sex with girls you are interested in, and if it doesn't go your way, move on to other girls and try to get things to go your way, and if you are having trouble getting any girls to move forward doing things your way, then simply improve yourself (go to the gym, work on your social skills, work on your finances, work on improving your lifestyle so it attracts the kind of people you want into it)

mystery method suggest a 2 day timeline, (he tries to fuck close on day 2), and 60yearsofchallenge/gunwitch are all about the same day, you can spend as much time as you want on a girl, but the more you focus on a girl who is not reciprocating the focus is just more time wasted when you could be finding girls that actually reciprocate interest

What was that man?

Why so angry?
She obviously has alot on her mind, and that didn't help you at all.
I would move on, but if you really feel for this girl, you could say your sorry and ask to make up for it. I think she will give you another chance.
But what you did was really sad.
goodluck~

Ahh, after re reading i see now... Move on, she's not worth the time.

I think the point here is, Keep the Re-opener SHORT! and only once!

One I have used and works well is: "No ur not that bad of kisser" when she texts back "what?" reply with "Oops wrong person, my bad"

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More options so, keep approaching.

Okay so last night she texts me saying that she thinks we should be friends, I said no problem at all and pretty much left it at that and told her it didn't bother me if that's what she wanted. Well she texts me first thing this morning ( which she never does ) and starts to talk the reasons she wants to be friends. I am at this point thinking to myself why she has brought it back up after I clearly told her that it was fine. And a day later no less.

She then goes onto say how I have not been clear to her what I wan with her. . At this point the red flags are flying up. She has been flaking on me and she wonders why I have been hesitant to bother with her? It's at this point where i feel like I am talking to a little child.

I told her that I am done talking about the past and that I hope that she finds a new guy and that we should move on and just stay friends like we both agreed to. Sounds good right? ... . Well she texts me back later and she was pissed for whatever reason and says " Okay I'm out, I wish you the best of luck " . I simply responded with " ok " . It felt like she wanted a huge reaction out of me and me and wanted a confrontation and when she didn't get it she got pissed. Crazy ass bitch.