Hey guys
So this is a bit of a different topic and I'm not sure if it's
discussed much in the community, or even on here to mention,
but I do find it really interesting to talk about so lets get into it.
Also, this may be a bit of a long post because and if you know
my style, I really get into it! I'm sure you'll find this VERY
beneficial in your own life too. I've put in pictures in too
to make it a little interesting.
ENJOY!
DREAMS
No, we're not talking about your dream of becoming
the worlds greatest PUA or a superstar DJ
...I'm talking about your subconscious dreams.
We all think that our dreams are just a series of
thoughts, images, and sensations occurring in a
person's mind during sleep, but a couple
of months ago I decided to keep track
of me dreams to see what they
could possibly mean or
translate into...and how
could it in any way relate back
to my success in molding myself into a PUA?
When most people dream, they think of flying,
breathing underwater and (one of my favourites...)
doing the KAMAHAMEHA wave! (Don't lie, you know you've
always wanted to do that!)
Anyway... I decided to track my dreams from last year August
so that I could identify common dreams and occurrences instate
to find out what they could possibly be telling me or
to possibly guide me to do in the real world. So I did.
Boy...my subconscious really knows how to get my attention!
I'll share my most recent dream for which I think has the most
relevancy to this topic.
Last night I dreamt of 5 things: A skyscraper, Jellyfish,
me falling from the skyscraper, me being underwater
with the jellyfish...and a leash.
I'll now tell you what each image or projection means
(I use a dream translator from dream-moods. com for
reference, very accurate) and what it translates into
in my life.
SKYSCRAPER:
To see a skyscraper in your dream represents your high ideals, creativity, accomplishments and imagination. You always aim high at whatever you do. The skyscraper is seen as a metaphor for the foresights and achievements of man.
[The skyscraper represents
my passion for doing things with a flair
of creativity and originality. I also aim to achieve high in many things I do
in order to better myself. Also, when I'm learning pickup I try to be
as creative or as original as I can yeah? I want to become a PUA
more than anything because I find this art so unique and
deeply transforming and I've dedicated so much time
and effort into practicing...it's become nearly a
lifestyle for me! But i'm no where near where I
want to be yet as I still have my AA to
overcome. Considering where I was
last year, I've come quite a way
in improving myself and my
social aspect with other
people.
So, to me, the skyscraper, also relates to my success for
pickup. I want to aim high and reach the top!
]
Right, next...
JELLYFISH 
To see a jellyfish in your dream represents painful memories that is emerging from your unconscious. There may be hidden hostility or aggression in some aspect of your waking relationship or situation. Alternatively, a jellyfish indicates feelings of inadequacy, uncertainty and a lack of self-esteem. Perhaps there is some situation in which you are unable to assert yourself
[This one is one of the most powerful projections I saw in my
dream, and since I've never seen Jellyfish in my dreams before
it was really significant that I remembered it and acknowledged
it's presence when I saw it.
I couple of days ago I was on a topic thread and I was giving my
advice to a guy, and he wanted to know how to get over his AA
but at the same time he was hitting the clubs. On that topic,
I told him that one of the bad memories I had was where I
went into a club, very anxious and nervous, and I approached
a 2 set of gorgeous girls...and I crashed and burned.
Now,
that to me was a very bad memory and will forever stay
with me because I wasn't prepared and I just looked
like a dweeb afterwards. In conjunction with that,
I've always kept that one memory suppressed for
years and only just brought it up the
surface now...and although it's not
troubling me, it makes me think
about how I should act and
become more confident
in myself in and out
game. My esteem
isn't the greatest
but I do have my days, everyone does.
One of the main reasons for this is because I've
never had a GF, 21 and still a virgin and also never been kissed...
It's mainly cause I was never taught any of these skills by anyone
too. I had to find it all out for myself after reading The Game.
I also feel the reason for my low S.E is because of the way
my body looks. It's not the greatest (flabby) but I workout
as much as I can and try to keep healthy but at the same
time there is a big sense of in-adequacy when competing
against the other good looking blokes out there and
in the clubs.
It's not like I don't go out and try, I do, but I feel as though I don't
try hard enough and that's where I feel as why I am failing all the
time in my journey for improving my game and overall social
ability and self esteem! And...in a wierd way, my subconcious thoughts,
are telling me this in the form a Jellyfish.
How crazy is that? How one thing in your mind can make so much sense?
ITS UNREAL.]
Right, halfway there...
Falling from the skyscraper // FALLING
To dream that you fall and are not frightened signifies that you will overcome your adversities with ease.
To dream that you fall and are frightened indicates a lack of control, insecurity, and/or lack of support in your waking life. You may be experiencing some major struggle and/or overwhelming problem. It may also imply that you have failed to achieve a goal that you have set forth for yourself.
[This particular projection relates to my entire PUA goal and what
I have set for myself in order to reach it. If we combine the jellyfish
and the skyscraper projections...I know that my subconscious is telling me
that the reason I am failing myself is: Because of the high
standards I have set for myself I am unable to reach them
BECAUSE of my ever impending fear from AA cause by
self esteem and fears of which I keep bottled up inside.
Fearing that approach...
The only way to overcome that fear and
reach that goal is to leave that comfort zone
and try harder in order to get what I desire.
I must stop half assing everything and just
push myself harder in order to get what I
truly desire! I must stop being afraid
and just do it, no matter what
happens...even if I hit the
bottom, I must still carry
on trying.]
2 More...
Underwater
To dream that you are underwater suggests that you are being overcome with emotions and are in over your head regarding some situation. You need to gain greater control of your life.
[The emotions I feel because of my S.E and the AA keep causing me to re-affirm the
fear of not accomplishing my goals...and because of this it emotionally straining. Not
seeing any results because of not trying. So urgently wanting to get that kiss and
just be embraced and surrounded by female friends in my life and live the
lifestyle I've always wanted...and not being in that current lifestyle is
also emotionally straining. Not having any girls to talk to or party with
an enjoy life with...it's one of the many pleasure I'm just, it's like
i'm allowing myself to miss out on those things because I'm not
trying hard enough and because I'm allowing my emotions to
get in the way of what I want.
I must rise above the surface and get that clear idea of what
I want and desire...If I don't get out of that "water", i'll never
get to where I want and achieve what I seek. It's the only way.]
One more... (thanks for reading this far!)
Leash
To dream that you are holding a leash indicates a need for more control in your life. You need to take the lead in some projection or situation.
To dream that you are wearing a leash suggests that you need to show more restraint with regards to your sexual urges and desires. Alternatively, the dream indicates that you are too easily led or too easily influenced. You are letting other people control you and take you in a direction that you do not really want to go.
[The leash is referring to myself being more progressive about overcomming
my current state of being a virgin and how I want to just finally have sex! As far
as other people controlling me, the only person that is restricting me from doing
all these things as I was the one holding the leash...I AM RESTRICTING MYSELF!
I am STOPPING myself from achieving the things in which I desire. I must
detach from myself and just be free and stop being afraid in doing things.
In order to be free, I must be free inside myself with nothing holding me back...]
You see how those projections, especially the jellyfish and the leash, impacted
me in my quest? In conclusion my entire dream told me: -
- Stop being afraid
- Overcome your fears
- Try harder and put in more effort
- Rise above adversity
- Stop restricting myself and push myself outside my comfort zone
- My ambitions may be too high as I cannot reach them yet...but I will achieve them in time
- I am holding myself back from being happy
WOW, what a post!
But you see what I mean? How a dream can impact so significantly in reality?
If I thought nothing of it and just forgot about the mind trip, it wouldn't have matter
that much, but understanding what it meant gives so much more value into how
my subconscious thoughts are trying to communicate with me.
Sure, I know about those problems I have, but seeing them
in that detail and in such explanation afterwards...
it just makes it that much more intriguing and exciting to see
inside my own mind and how I can better myself in the future
in order to get what I want and where I want to be.
Thanks for reading!
- Chai
CHAT
