When thinking about approaching a woman I feel like I have nothing to offer, so what’s the point.

I feel really stuck.

I’m new to the whole PUA thing, I haven’t read any books or done a bootcamp. Maybe I should do that before I made this post but I just thought I’d through it out there.

What do you think?

Adam Lyons said the key to attraction is investment! invest in yourself! take up a new hobby; Gym, fitness, guitar whatever you want but do something for you!
Giacamo Casanova said "The secret to being loved is believing you are worth loving"

I know I shouldn't be teaching this ... but you don't need anything going on with your life to pick up... seriously you do not need anything in terms of attracting girls. Money, looks, having a successful job, you don't need neither! As long you have the skill sets and you believe in yourself you can pick up. You just need some motivation or something to inspire that you are entitled! But, of course you require hard work and a long term commitment to achieve this!

But, go read

A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose or The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand

And finally ... go check out Real Social Dynamics Nation. They have like free stuff on how to pick up girls! Even free infield videos given by the pimpiest of the all pimps Tyler Durden!

Sincerely,

Donston

PS: I believe if you get this part of your life fixed ... you will want to improve other things in your life like health, and career .... etc etc

Sounds like you're suffering and not in a good place dude. Read and absorb as much free stuff as you can avaliable on Youtube and the like. If you're a decent guy and could offer a woman care,love and affection there are many women who need it, some are harder to crack than others.

The point is to make you and someone else very happy, that's the point

What makes you think the girl has anything to offer? Her clothes? Her hair? Make up? Couldn't you accessorize yourself just as well? Or is it her vagina? She has a vigina to offer.... well a vagina is useless without a cock. lol.

Here's an opener that I've never tested but you might get some insight out of.

You: "Hey I need a woman's opinion." say it right and she will agree. Trust me.

Her: "sure"

You: "A girl friend of mine sleeps in the same bed as a guy but she says they aren't having sex. Do you think it's possible? Or would sex eventually happen naturally?"

Watch how many women will actually say that they are banging and laugh about it. Plus it's a great opener because you are bringing up sex right off the bat without showing interest in her. Plus it's the type of convo women love. The more you interact with women the more you will get to know what they like. Women like controversy.

My point is this. Lock a man and a woman alone in a room long enough and they will have sex. believe me on this. In fact lock two of any species on earth in a room long enough and they will have sex. It's something that happens naturally.

What you have to offer her is your cock. You are a man, simple as that. You needn't convince her you are worthy. You need to convince her you aren't unworthy. Basically, pass the shit tests. That's all women require pretty much.

Well NiteOwl1983, i understand that you are feeling like shit right now, but see the things this way, suffering is good if you want to really change, like energy to keep on moving you know, like in a pc game, you lose over and over, but it only brings you more motivation to get better and win the obstacle, till you got it.

By the way beeing sad is worthless, and why? Because beeing sad its like beeing stuck in a paralising and uninteresting world, and if you feel like that, why do you think people will think the opposite? they will not.

Now... why do you feel unwhorty?
Do you have friends?

- Iam asking this because, if you have friends, what i can advise you is to be near the confident ones, the funny ones, you will have a laugh and feel lots of energy.

- You have girls in the group? Fine even better, be friends with them, joke around them, call them like a dad and say "came here, today iam going to choose you the man of your life", "what do you think of that guy" and you point to the most drunk or anoing guy on the room for exemple, playng with them like they where your little sisters, or daughters, and you the father or the older brother.

IF YOU DONT:

- Well, what i can strongly can advise you is to, do some sport, like kickbox, or have dance classes, because first you will lost all that negative energy, you will have lots of fun, trying something new, like your other classmates,plus having dance in common, and a new skill to teach later, or talk later.

Iam not the best pick up on earth, but one thing i found very important, Inner Game, what is inside comes outside, now you have to see what you really want.

I choose to try, trying error style, at the moment i just do it, if goes bad, really is not the end of the world, and later you will laught about believe me, if it works, well keep on going.

Do you know the opener "who do you think lies more, whoman or man", first i stayed like, this is stupid, and unreal, but then i thought whatever, i dont have nothing to loose at all. And guess what? ok i didnt get layd, but on that night i tried at least 10 times on every corner, and with very interesting responses, and with a smile of girls.

Not the shut down that we all imagine on our mind, i had fun just asking it and going away, some of them just for asking ask back, having a really funny conversation. Some of them i found later on the night. On the seek for a better and interesting life, trying and error, are your best friends.

After all, one of the great invention in the world, the lamp was made before several atempts, and know we cant live without it.

stay on your depressive bubble worthless, and unproductive, almost vegetable state of mind, or try to get better trying, learning descovering a new world.

You got to love yourself, know what your worth and find out more about yourself before a girl can love you. I used to be an AFC (average frustrated chump) then ive been working my way to alpha, i have an image in my head of the PERFECT me, Exactly who i want to be and i work toward being him every day id say within the next 2 months im gonna finish that last 10% of being Alpha, right now others think im alpha but i know i have that last inner 10% till im indestructible.

My advice is to picture yourself being a boss, and explore yourself more!

In reality what does a woman have to offer? nothing but her vagina but YOU... your gonna be making bank and leading your life and your gonna be the important one. That alone should be a good reason that your worthy, its internal so explore yourself, your beliefs, morals and interests and build your character on that!

The issue is you need to not care. I've gone out and opened sets with the express intent of failing and half the time I succeed! I am entirely self-amusing which demonstrates high value because it's clear you don't really care if they speak to you or not

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