Hi guys, Ive been on the PUA stuff for almost five months now and have acquired quite good results, yet I recently joined the forum.
I have noticed something very interesting of PUAs and AFCs, and what really makes them different. Today, I told a close friend of all the PUA stuff, and he laughed really hard, when I tried to explain, he wouldnt believe me. Same thing happened with my brother and another close friend, I told them of this, but they came up with a bunch of objections and did not really believe it would work.
It is quite disappointing, as I really had good intentions. Ive come to the conclusion that I shouldnt really tell this stuff to people. It is amazing, even when they really need this and it could do wonderful things for them, they reject it, really really weird.
I think that what differentiates PUAs from AFCs, is that WE have that internal drive and determination to succeed with women. Most people want to succeed, but they just see it as an unattainable dream and just ignore their most natural desires. PUAs chase success, when we were AFCs, WE knew there was a problem with us, and we looked for methods to improve. I spent a lot of time looking for PUA stuff, when I finally got the books I felt very privileged to have these.
The thing is, I think that PUAs have this strong gene that looks for success. We no longer live in the jungle like a thousand years ago. Like the Mystery Method says, society has grown really quickly. I see this as survival of the fittest. As we no longer live in the jungle, some of us have developed this gene that contains the powerful determination to look for sources of information that will lead us to reproduce. I think this is what makes PUAs. Very, very few people had the will to study countless hours of women psychology, field test their theories and share them to the world (THANK YOU!). Likewise, few people have the will to look for this methods.

I think this is why we are kind of an underground community. The guys I told about PUA stuff were like monkeys!! Didnt even get it! But WE PUAs have the POWER! OH YES WE DO!
It takes balls to do what we do!
Have a nice day guys!

My friends are the same as yours. I'm really new to this, and I'm still an AFC myself. When I tell my friends about what I'm doing, they laugh, say it won't work, say they don't need it, and they won't be interested in it. Some people just don't get it. I don't know why I'm so obsessed with the idea of becoming a PUA and my friends don't want to do anything to change their lives.

agree with you, it takes guts to get out of the comfort zone and look at the long term results.

I recently had a weekend with my mates back home and I was saying I'm going to 'game' the bars and clubs tonight..

They all said 'yeah, whatever'.. 'bet you don't get any where'..

I had my opener, that I also got them involved in first by asking them their opinion on the topic, so it was an actual opinion question that 'me and my mates were just talking about'..

I opened set after set after set, just to prove I could get girls (even sets with guys in) to talk to me comfortably..
Got a number in the first local bar we went in straight away..

Then hit town and every bar just felt so easy to get the flow going..
They were starting to look impressed..

I even asked one mate to set me a challenge to achieve..
'ok, get that girls number there.. in 10 minutes..'

Now I would never feel like rushing to get to the #close as I feel it comes across a little uncomfortable for them (unless they are showing real strong signs of attraction).. so I said, ok, but by the time we leave i'll have it..
Unfortunatley, as I opened the 2 set of girls and chatted for 2 minutes, a guy arrived (her husband) so a #close not possible really, but i still stood chatting for another 10 minutes after opening him as well.. when I then moved on (after they said 'great meeting you, see you later.. etc..' I saw a 3 set of girls at the bar..

5 minutes in I had 2 numbers and arranged to meet them at a better class bar later!! (and for the record they were nearly half my age!!)..

Now, the lads still think 'yeah, but you just talked to every one in every bar, you're bound to get a hit eventually..'

Derr.. that's the point, I was trialing now things, approaching loads just to boost my confidence.. not one set didn't feel comfortable with me there talking to them, or look at me like the old dork i used to feel like...

eventually I ended up hitting a top break.. 2 set at bar, opened and number closed in 5 and she even dumped her mate to stay with me.. (and the bar manager looked very impressed with me.. he gave me the pen for her.. ha ha)

It's how you make yourself feel and act on the chances..

I'll let them carry on going.. 'she's nice over there..' 20 minutes later after stalking her around going 'Hi, wanna drink?' etc...

I'll open the sets and pass on the cast offs to them..

Twenny