| So I approached this HB9 at a chill irish pub when she snuck away from her 2 friends who were clearly a couple. Turns out she's new to town on a job and the girl is her best friend, but she knows no one else in town. Score, right? This was about 10 mins before I left with friends, so got her number, and we texted a bunch. She seemed really into me, I def made a good first impression. Then I met up with her for a couple drinks and we chilled all day, great kino, she seemed super into me, my game was on. Closed with a kiss. Not trying to rush this one.
Around this point in time I started to realize just how really beautiful and awesome she really is. Seriously my dream girl if you look at overall package, and I literally haven't felt this way about a girl in many years (I'm 27yo) and I've only chilled with this girl twice.
So third date is a fancy-ish X-mas party, we go with her friend and her bf, who are both very chill (she's smoking hot too). Once again, great night! She seems all about me, and we started getting a bit drunk and I could tell I sort of acted like I really like her. Maybe a bit too much, ya know, not enough negs, all agreeing to everything she says. But eventually that's how I work my game in general. I just think it might have scared her a bit.
Anyways we close on some intimate kissing, she's seems all about me still, says call me later see you soon, yada yada. I text when I got home, then again a twice the next day (we were supposed to meet up to watch a football game), then a FB message 2 days later. I assumed 3 times no answer means dont contact me anymore. This is my first experience with a flakey girl (new to SoCal), so not knowing exactly how to deal with them I just completely ignored her. Which was tough, I seriously started to like this girl in the 2 weeks or whatever. I shot her a merry xmas message 2 weeks later which she replied to. Then just 2 days ago (a month after xmas) I asked her to play tennis sometime on FB. She seems super into it and says definitely. Then I dont respond for 2 days and she asks how are you, whats going on, yada yada.
My question: How do I maximize her attraction to me in this situation? This girl is my dream girl for a long term girl (can't believe I just said those words!).
Things to consider: She totally flaked out on me before. There could be many reasons for this. But my plan is to just completely ignore the subject and if she brings it up just act like I was the one who flaked on her.
-I started to act like I liked her too much before, and this time I need to just take it a bit slower and be more chill and not get "under her spell" so to speak.
-How slow do I take this? I figure just start with tennis, and joke around a lot, throw out some negs, and try and get another meetup after we play somehow on the fly.
TIPS??
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