I'll start by introducing myself I'm iTwitch not a newbie I came from a different website and its not very active so if you can read my story and maybe give me a couple of tips, what to do's, advances.

I basically made a dumb mistake with this girl guys I've been out with her and friends a few times I got the number close on the first meet. (HB8)

This week I set up a date to go out, but I got a feeling she may flake because after sealing the deal I asked her "What she was doing?" even though I asked her the same question four texts before this.

The example above personally is a rookie mistake and why I done it I have no idea! This might be seen as "Boring" and she didn't text back this was roughly 24 hours ago any help guys would be much appreciated.

-iTwitch

Hey dude,

i think the only thing you can do is wait for response. Anything else would just be... insecure i think. Think of it this way: if she really is attracted to you in some way, she wont flake. If she does flake, you need to do a better job next time and you just.... .... NEXT!!

This is why i hate texting. I gives the illusion for those who dont have patience that they can influence the outcome with mere text words. Tsss

cheers!

_________________
"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Thank you for the advice dude, one more question if you can? Good idea to text her in the morning? Or on the day I'm gonna go out with her just to spark her memory? I've just never got myself in this situation if I'm honest feeling like I was a while back "A bit insecure" I guess.

-Thanks
-iTwitch

Yo dude,

i know what you are talking about, this feeling of insecurity. I wouldnt do it, send a text in the morning or at the day you are supposed to meet. I know, its gonna be hard days, and you really would want to do something. But i advice against it. I think by 'reminding her' that you will project your insecurity.

I would hold on by the simple logic i gave in my previous post: if there is attraction, she wont flake. and then you know somewhere in your game, you screwed up. It might have been the text you sent, but if she doesnt reply anyway.

yeah, counting hours, those are the worst days . the best thing you can do is to find something to put your mind on, this might be gaming other girls.

cheers, and good luck!

_________________
"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Thanks for slapping me in the face with your words!

-iTwitch

it was entirely my pleasure

but still, good luck mate!

_________________
"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you