Just a curious question. Personally I hate it. But I am in a city where snow is frequent so I let the girl stay the night. Usually wants to cuddle right after...blah

After sex I usually give the girl a dutch oven; it's a sure way of getting her the fuck out of my bed, and often, if she's disgusted enough, out of my home. Sure beats coming up with some bullshit excuse.

Cuddling is almost as good as sex if I'm very attracted to the girl. I let her use my chest as a pillow and lock legs, hell she'll even sweat and drool on me as she sleeps.

No, because girls never let me have sex with them. I'd love to cuddle a girl after sex though. Funny how girls say they like cuddles, but when presented with a guy who will actually cuddle them, they run off with dickheads who will just fuck them and then chuck them out in the rain! So much for liking cuddles then! Do girls like you guys even more if you start punching and kicking them, they obviously like the rest of the shit SPAM you give them!

No I never get what I want. If I try it on with any girl, all I get is either a slap or "Ooh I don't like you in that way blah blah blah", which translates roughly as "Fuck off you ugly sexually-useless subhuman scum".

My morbidly low self-esteem will disappear if/when I get a sexy girl to love me, kiss me and fuck me.

I fucking love cuddles after sex. Feed's my ego. Especially if they fall asleep in your arms. Just feel's so right!

Danthedan: You have to love yourself before others will love you. They're not having sex with you because you aren't offering anything unique to them. You need to act unique, and show them that you're different to all the chumps out there.

Take it slow, there's no rush! Improve one part at a time. Get one part down to a T, then move on to the next part. It'll build your confidence to the shit house, as well as tighten your game.

I'm not an expert, but that's just my two cents.

Prefer spooning rather than cuddling. Or does that fall under the category cuddling?

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I love cuddling. But it depends on how I view the girl. With some of them I don't feel the need to cuddle, or it feels funny to cuddle, even if I do sleep over - usually if I don't find her personality that appealing or there is no other chemistry than just sexual. And I only spoon a girl I really really like for something more than just fucking.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Why do I have to love myself for a girl to fancy my face? When I see pretty girls I couldn't give a fuck about whether they love themselves or not, they're gorgeous so I want them! All I need is for a single pretty girl to love me, why can't I find one who physically fancies my face so I can kiss her and have sex with her? :S

Great anger I sense in this thread. Guys remember to be excellent to each other.

This kind of post often has two kinds of people who take it seriously, the ones who try to answer the question and the ones who see their chance to promote their wannabe badass attitude.

Why would you ever treat a girl like shit? Why would you ever treat her in a bad way when she has just done exactly what you wanted her to do. This is classical conditioning guys. She does something bad, no reward or even a punishment (LMR). She does something good, reward her.

I cuddle all the time. Unless she pisses me off. If I like the girl, it feels nice to cuddle a bit and get that oh yeah I just banged this totally awesome girl and now we are chilling and talking about whatever, I love it. If the girl is annoying, why would you sleep with her in the first place?

So please please please, people. We dont think that you are exceptional just because you treat a girl like shit. We dont buy into that all superior alpha bull. Believe me, the thought of treating a girl in a bad way has crossed our minds too, we just decided against it because it is the wrong thing to do.
True alpha males dont have to take every chance he gets to show what a badass alpha male he is. That just shows that he still has a long way to go before he can truly be called an alpha. And that is it, you arent alpha just because you say it. You are alpha when others say it.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Tony said it all

No girl will want to hook up with you if you are not happy with youself. IT IS NOT SOMETHING YOU CAN PRETEND. Have a good bl, a tight game and it is a done deal. Btw, we might be coming off as rough and that it is not our goal. We just have to be honest in order to help you.

Hell yeah I do. I'm a cuddle monster. Rawrrrr!

My favorite thing is to have rough, kinky, passionate sex fallowed by cuddling till she falls asleep in my arms. I'll normally softly rub her back with my finger tips and play with the back of her neck and ear lobes as she lays on my chest.

Another one is to finish bunt don't pull out. Then cuddle her while you're still inside till you go limp. I love doing this in reverse cow girl. But it works best in forward cowgirl.

Yea I cuddle. I've seen an increase of morning sex with the girl wakes up and your holding her compared to when she wakes up and your ass is in her face.

I am desperate though, in the same way that a starving tramp is desperate for food, or a lost guy in the desert is desperate for water. I'm desperate for sex, love and approval from sexy girls, something I've never had. I do so many things to try to improve myself, dressing well, going to the gym most days of the week, going to bars most nights trying to get any girl to notice me and give me IOIs, and yet still nothing, and it's driving me mental!
I am trying to love myself, and I don't mean to be argumentative because I appreciate your advice, but I can't understand how on Earth I'm supposed to love myself when I seem incapable of getting any action/interest from girls at all, no matter how hard I try to look good and seem cool. So I can't love myself until I get some action, in fact I hate myself for my constant failure, I feel like I'm a disgrace to the human race because I'm clearly so utterly useless at getting the most important thing in the world: sexy girl sex!

What's a good bl? :S