Hello,

for the past 3 months I have been dating this girl, that IMO is a 9,5 - 10. In the beginning she was texting me all the time and we hang out alot, and we have a great time together.

Here comes the dilemma. Her last boyfriend and her was together for 4,5 years, and they broke up about 1 month before she met me. She have told me that she have feelings for me, but that she is not ready for something serious right now, and want to hang out more with here friends, instead of me. We talk everyday, but I have only seen her 1 time for like 30mins the last 3 weeks! And she told me that she dont wanna do the same mistake with me, that she did with her ex, because she want it to become perfect with me! She says she miss me and stuff, but idn what to belive anymore.
What to do? Time for me to move on? I really like her, but seems like we are on different stages..

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Btw: the misstake she did with her ex, was to be with eachother all the time, so they got bored of eachother.

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IMO, she is going from 100 to 10, if you get what im saying. She is going from one extreme to the other, when the goal should be to achieve balance. Try and talk to her, if her mind can't be changed, move on, There is plenty of fish in the sea. Of course, how much you try to change her mind dependes on how much you like her.

Another point to be considered, is that you stated that the mistake in her previous relantionship was being together all the time so they got bored. You also said that you guys talk everyday, just dont see each other. Its almost the same thing. Keep following this path and you will tire of each other.

What you have its almost a long distance relantioship.