I picked up a HB7 Friday night while being sober driver. My Bro's gf brought her best mate along.

She wanted to go to the bottle store an get another bottle of wine. So I drove her and when I pulled back up at the house I kiss closed her.

We went back into the party and then I took those who needed a lift home. I dropped her home and she invited me in.

Straight into her room we went. I failed to FClose but got a BJ and slept the night.

I have never not been able to Fclose. What did I get wrong?

This is what I found out about her. Her EX cheated with a younger woman a year ago. her EX is the only man she has ever slept with.

She says she is still in love with him and is unsure about dating me. She will date me but her insecurity and hurt is ever present.

If she was a little fitter she would be a HB9 but the events of the past 12months have hit her hard, including her father getting a terminal illness.

Is it worth the time and effort? If so how long could it take for her to get back to the sort of confident person I would be fully attracted to?

I have been on a second date with this one things went backwards. Total shit tests all night. Do I persevere of let it go? I till get the hows your day txts but the baggage is a concern?

So I went cold on her for a few days and last night she txt me and wants to do a dinner + movie date this week.

Obviously keen.

I haven't said anything else but she is now chasing me. I will go on the date and see what happens.