hi

I think I jump to conclusions too quickly.
When I talk to a girl for like 5 minutes and we have an interesting conversation, and I say bye without getting her number, for days I keep kicking myself and saying "dammit, i could have totally fucked her"

but i think this is wrong? maybe she is just interested in talking and nothing more?
I am wondering, just because a girl is talking to you that does not mean she wants to have sex with you, right? so how do you tell? how difficult is it to go from talking to sex?

PS something that showed me this girl was interested is I was telling her my neighbors fight all the time. Then I got quiet. and she restarted the conversation saying "so you neighbors fight every night?" if a girl restarts a conversation does that mean she wants you?

lol face palm

...No

Talking won't get you laid, it won't. Talking serves one purpose, in my mind, and that is to screen women to find if they are the type with whom you would want to be spending your time. Physicality is what will get this for you. Holding her hand, standing so close your legs touch, putting your hand on her back, etc. That's what builds attraction, that's what'll do shit. I have no idea if her restarting a conversation means she's into you...I would assume it means you weren't saying ANYTHING so she tried to start up a conversation again from where it left off. I do have an idea that once you are holding a girl's hand you can pretty much kiss her whenever.

take each and every opportunity you talk as an opportunity to work towards bedding her. So long as she's open to talking to u, there's always a chance to take things further if ur game is right.

if it's all talky talk and no physical escalation, no amount of flirting will get you where you want to go.

disagree, assuming i can pump enough attraction, I use mostly talking, BL, frame and very little kino to get laid. I will use a lot of kino when I get her to my house but the whole non-stop 60 YoC caveman kino escalation model isn't the only way, or the best way, to do it.

As far as the question goes, yes, no , maybe. Likely your game isn't strong enough to make her want to fuck you tbh. In any case you should have asked for her number so dont repeat the mistake over and over.

Every girl talking to you wants to fuck you, you just have to figure out if you want to fuck them...

Assume attraction.

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No touching = friend zone. Flirting is more of an ego thing. You are just playing it safe as an excuse to not have the balls to escalate on her hard. You are also more likely to get shit tested when you flirt because it's harder to show that you're congruent with who you really say you are when it comes to just verbal communication. Now if you escalate on her, actions speak way louder than words. A combination of the both is great, but escalation is priority #1.

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These guys are all right. Let me approach from the other side though. NEVER kick yourself for not doing something right in-set. The fact that you're playing that numbers game of approaching many girls is good enough juju to forgive all mistakes. Just keep approaching. Maybe a girl will offer her number to you without you needing to ask!

So feel good about any set you go in. But I will say to TOUCH and PURSUE A CLOSE.