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Hey dude! Unfortunatley it's a known fact that someone who doesn't like himself can't possible convey the positive energy to someone else to make them like that person. If i were you i would do some confidence building like dressing sharp, going out to quieter places where you will get more of a peace of mind, give compliments to others (other than the girls you want to pick up), it really helps get some good self esteem.
I personally never go to rave or hardstyle etc clubs because its pointless to try and pickup there, one can hardly hear hiimself think, not to mention talk to people

Totally agree with Tony here. I was in the same boat as you 4 months ago angry at life and very negative person and shy around women. Now I'm far more positive, relaxed person. A book I just read is "How to Become an Alpha Male" by John Alexander, it should massively help with your confidence, I strongly suggest reading it and then see the improvement in your results.