now ive been reading sum of the stuff on here, and i can see there r a few women signed up. as chief said it "the pickup artist artist" hahaha. and im thinking to myself as i read.. "wow, i wonder what is the perfect looking guy?" im not a "bad" looking guy, but im no Ryan Reynolds either.

im wondering what the phyical things y'all women see in a man thats makes you say things like....DAMNNNNN! haha

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First thing they notice is your insecurity and feeling of not being pretty enough.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

yea super cool..but im talking about physical traits.. i know most men like boobs or butts.. im curious to the flip side of that. whats hot on a guy?

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Ryan Reynolds looks retarded. I know many women who don't find him attractive, at all. For most women, they'll tell you Bradly Cooper is the bee's knees.

In actuality, most men don't look like either of these two.
But to be honest, most men don't need to if they know how to talk to a woman.
I guess what I'm saying is that (imo) they look pretty similar besides facial structure.
So since if you ask most women if she/they finds/find either one of these guys attractive (assuming she says yes) then you know it's obviously facial features if she finds one attractive and one not.

And if she thinks they are both attractive then what in the hell could it be besides their bodies?
Some women find a guys butt attractive, some have obsessions over hair.
Just like one guy likes ass, and one guy likes boobs. You will never get a definitive answer on what they like physically.

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The same thing actually, but instead of boobs its pecs for guys.

I'd buy that, back when I wasn't very into working out I had a chick tell me, "Your cute but you need to get your chest game together".

Word for word quote.

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It all comes down to inner game. Being attractive comes from withing.

If you love yourself, girls will love you as well.

Too bad that most of us have (had) bad internal programming for years, and that is not easy to get rid of.

I'm short (5 foot and bald. And I attract girls based solely on my presence.

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i know it's cliche, but girls don't fall in love with their eyes, they fall in love with their ears.

the truth is, you can be a pretty below-average looking guy (by social standards) but as long as you're well-groomed, stylish, and confident, you can get pretty much anyone.


i'm 6'2" and 140lbs. a very skinny dude but i make the best of what i'm working with.

i wear big watches and bracelets to distract from my small wrists, i like to wear button downs (cuffed right below my knobby elbows) instead of t-shirts, a straight leg jean is perfect for my chicken legs where they're not too baggy and not too tight, and i have a baby face so maintaining some facial hair really helps me look mature (i'm 22 but when i'm clean shaven i look 16).

shower every day, use a high quality deodorant and cologne (smelling great is VERY important.) and find a style that fits your needs.

in a girls mind, the gift wrapping is more important than the gift, if you get what i'm saying.

and even when you're getting down and dirty with her and you're stripped of all your flaw concealers, she's already so blinded by passion and your public image to notice.

that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to improve your physical self, hit the gym, maintain the right diet, be the best you that you can be, fell in the gaps with proper accessories and always smile in social situations (i was always self conscious about my smile until i took advice from either Style or Gambler who mentioned to practice smiling in front of a mirror and try to memorize your best smiles and use them), keep good posture, and you're the prize!

- Stylite

Let me share something with you guys. I've been hitting the gym intensely for years, my body speaks for itself (I get a lot of attention). I'm considered to be quite handsome as well. In the past I've remained dateless for months and months on end. Why? Because I had the misdirected belief that women should be approaching me if they found me attractive - big mistake.

A lot of guys workout and all of a sudden they're finding greater success with women. Is it the progress they've made on developing their bodies that is responsible for this phenomenon? Sure, with some women that may certainly be the case. But I'm going to hazard a guess and say that as a result of being more comfortable with themselves, they are also more likely to approach women. Approaching MORE women = more opportunities to date, it's not rocket science. More options with women = less neediness.

i wanted to share what JUST happened to me (i'm literally at the bar at a Club Med typing this as we speak)

i went to go order a drink and the bartender comes up to me very excited! she starts asking me my name and how old i am and all that jazz, but shes definitely 30yo+ herself so i was wondering what the deal was.

apparently there's a group of cute brazilian chicks walking around looking for me and they asked her to find me for them.

point being, i'm sorrounded by much more attractive, well built, charming, european guys, and yet i stand out to this particular group of girls (and 2 other Club Med employees, one of which i already F Closed)

it's ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE! be social, be mysterious, smile, maintain your posture, look your best all the time and GIRLS NOTICE.

it's simple. i approached TWO girls this whole week both of which want more of me and here is another group of FOUR girls that are desperately trying to meet me.

- Stylite

Ok, knowing that looks aren't important, I'd say broad shoulders, pecs and abs. I feel so vulnerable and cuddly when a guy with broad shoulders hugs me, and there are some butterflies down south too

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I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

why do you care? Honest question out of curiosity

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Both of those guys pictures dont really do much to me lol/taste differs
I dont like hairy men , but that is personal.like the chesthair is a turn-off

But It really depends what type/style of guy the girl is into.

anyways ,You have butt girls , and girls who go for broad shoulder, generally.

Usually the lower class the girl is the more she will want her man to be muscular.

When a girl is more high class she will generally go for more slim guys.

And like guys like blondes more generally women like guys with dark hair more.

(Read this in a body language book)

strong facial features. symmetrical face.straight white teeth. ( too white is also not good)and a jersey shore tan is trashy. Condifence is a must, and he needs to dress nice.

But it depends on the girl!
, for eg some of my friends go crazy for black guys, I dont find myself attracted whatsoever.

I personally am totally weird because I find myself being attracted only to British men. The accent , the dressing style, the white skin . I like them with their cute symmetrical faces. And some of them are crazy out of hand, love it.I like how they are raw and rough and at the same time metrosexual but not in the Italian way thank god lol

Personally I find these men really goodlooking :

http://www.google.nl/imgres?q=james+fra ... x=68&ty=70

http://www.google.nl/imgres?q=luke+wora ... ,r:16,s:95

http://search.babylon.com/imageres.php? ... bsrc=SP_ss


http://www.google.nl/imgres?q=tom+hardy ... 29,r:2,s:0

This guy makes me boomchickawawa

yet if they would hang out with losers, or he would be really insecure or boring it would mean the end of things lol.

^ See different taste EVERY TIME lol, there will never be a definitive answer to "What do women look for in men?".

Not that it's a bad thing, personally I wouldn't date a blonde if you paid me. So women are of course entitled to their own different opinions.
Were men, not gods .

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