Hey guys,

so the attraction phase isn't too difficult for me because I'm kinda a funny guy, at least when I'm drunk, but I'm having problems getting into the seduction phase. I don't know, I just feel like a girl would get really weirded out if I just started rubbing her leg or arm. Is there something you can say that leads into touching the girl more? What are some ways to seduce girls at like a house party or a club?

When your interacting with a girl in her mind she's building a picture of the type of person you are and at the moment your the funny friend.

Keep being yourself, be funny but start adding an underlying sexualness to everything. I recommend reading up on sexual framing, sexual tension and getting into state there are threads on this forum about it go read Chief's Guide to Outer Game in PUA Lounge.

Quick example- Her: "I've got to be in an out of here fast I'm busy today" Me: "thats what she said". Before you can "rub their leg" you have to be sexy in their eyes so start flirting!

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You problem is that you can't really go in seduction phase if you just finished attraction. You have to build enough comfort with your target so that you can start seducing her. Jumping the comfort building process is really not a good idea. By the way you have to start the kino as soon as you enter the set. You're just a touchy guy..make her get used to your touch even if it's for one sec. That one sec done multiple times will get her used to your kino and will eventually (if you say you do attraction well) will return the kino to you. Although..keep in mind that she'll only return the kino if she's attracted..a girl who doesn't find you attractive will avoid every chance of touching you..where a girl who is interested will find "excuses" to brush your hand or any part of your body! Hope I helped!

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