Sometimes girls say they're tired of their 'normal' life, and for some reason decide /claim that they want a guy who is 'wrong for them', in their own words. What does this mean? Logically, a guy who is 'wrong for them' would be the opposite of a guy who is 'right for them'. A guy who is 'right for them' would presumably be a guy who is of equal or higher physical attractiveness, tall (obviously!), confident, smooth and popular. So one would naturally deduce that a guy who is 'wrong for her' would be less attractive than her, and basically a short, shy, socially awkward geek. This is a perfectly logical conclusion - this geeky kind of guy must be wrong for her because he is by definition the exact opposite of a guy who is 'right' (i.e. a good choice) for her.

But is this what girls mean when they talk about a guy who is 'wrong for them'? If not, what do they mean?

A bad boy who is not predictable.

Earlier posts plus this one suggest to me that you may possibly be attracted to tall men.

But girls love bad boys because they turn girls on by being nasty, beating them up, bullying other people and doing criminal activity. They're also usually quite tall & muscular, and unpredictableness is of course exciting. So how on Earth is this 'wrong' for the girl? :S

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We don't live in the wild west man. Beating up women is typically seen as bad for them, lol. I do suggest you give it try and tell me how it goes.

And to add that's not what it means. Wrong guy for her means a seducer badboy. Who will charm her, fuck her, show her a amazing time for a week and leave her.

But that makes no sense. If a guy wanted a girl who is 'wrong for him' he'd go for a fat ugly thick girl, as this is the exact opposite of what turns guys on. So why don't girls do similar? Someone is 'right' for you if they turn you on. These seducer badboys turn girls on, so they are actually 'right' for them, not 'wrong' at all!

If these girls want a ONS with a bad boy (or any kind of guy, good or bad), then fine. But why are they then surprised when it doesn't become a relationship, when they knew exactly what they were getting into and what kind of guy he is?! That's like a guy going to see a prostitute and being surprised when she asks him to leave when his time's up. You either have a relationship with a 'nice guy', or you have an abusive ONS with a bad boy, why is that so difficult for girls to grasp? :S

It's like Beyonce's song when she says she wants a 'rude boy that's good to me' - well if he's rude, then by definition he's not going to be good to you at all, he's just gonna fuck you then chuck you.

They don't know what they're getting into, that's the point. They may be under the illusion that they know, but ultimately they are driven to the brink of desire by his ability to be unpredictable and challenging.

@ Papichulo

You need to change your Avatar. Everything I read by you plays out with a straight up Bruno accent in my head. it's very distracting lol

Haha, quite honestly it does the same for me too as I'm typing.

hah hah hah hah (Bruno laugh)

You want to be a bad boy whose predictable. Intent is number one. You are the only guy out of all her male friends drooling over her that can offer her fast, no strings attached, passionate sex.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

I will put it this way. When it comes to girls, shut off logic. Enough said.