Ok, this is a far less depressing post than my previous one about a oneitis but an important post nonetheless. I always seem to have the same problem. I have no problems approaching and starting conversations with a girl in a bar/club (when I’m drunk lol) and invariably I can do well enough to stay in a conversation as opposed to getting shut out straightaway. I can even make her laugh and I have no problem using kino when I’m drunk to touch her arm (for example) as I make a joke. But what always happens is eventually I’ll feel the conversation dying out and then there is no chance of a kiss close and even pointless asking for her number to as I leave (talking from experience).

So how do I prevent this from happening and convert the conversation into at least a number close, but more preferably a kiss close? If the girl isn’t that drunk it’s hard to physically escalate and be really forward. But if I’m not forward the conversation doesn’t go anywhere either. Catch 22.

What topics should I talk about etc? How and how much should I flirt/tease her? And how physical should I be?

Thanks all, if I can overcome this problem then I will have come a long, long way in PUA, but it’s taking a long time getting over this hurdle.

just cut away on a high note in the conversation dont stay around for it to loose momentum

there is lots of cool ways to do a number close just work them in on a high note i like a question game
ask for ask have to be truthful ect
ask few stupid questions then ask for her to finish this number for me in aus all numbers start with 04 so i write that and get her to fill in the dots then continue dont leave straight away after number close chill for bit longer then say you gotta run busy busy busy high value person ect

and i always text her within half of leaving but ussually something funny bit of callback humour from the convo you had nothing that needs major response just so she remembers you.

there is heaps of number close techniques just find one that works for u

but key points i always do are

1) do it on high point in convo,
2) dont just dash once you have it unless its in the the number close technique
3) make sure she gets ur number straight away so she remebers u (also good to get ur name in her phone under something funny (akita the great or akita that cool guy

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