That's right im starting a journal, but unlike others who b ore us with unimportant details, Ill simply finish the journal when its finished.

My goal is to get a a few 25-30 year old hotties between a 8-10. and eventually marry one. I figure once that happens, it's time to pass the torch to the younger guys.

frankly, Im getting tired of the warnings from mods, every day somebody new is warning me, ive never been warned for encouraging thought before, in fact, in school it was encouraged, here if i disagree with somebody who thinks they are Neil Strauss, then somebody warns you.

Anyway, see u when the journal is complete!

Day 1, I spot a target walking in to Hooters in her work clothes. And she didnt punch me in the teeth, off to a flying start

Great let's see what you got! And by the way...small details make the big differences Good luck! And by the way..you cant disagree with something if you never tried. You never tried Mystery Method or Neil Strauss's yet you say everyone who uses that method is wrong or it's fake...you cant say an apple tastes bad if you never ate an apple..so stop the skepticism and go work on your skills!

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Just wanted to throw this in here. I started a thread about how I used a Ross Jefferies technique and it actually worked.

Last week, Thursday night:

I had this technique internalized from a while back but I never tried it before. And it worked,,,if not in a backwards way. but who cares.

So I was at the mall for a bit and I came across a hot blond working in one of them stands in the middle of the mall.

So I approach(what the hell), and I say (pacing her reality) "I can see you are really busy, (Pause...to add drama so she wonders what u will say)

but...pause...it's just that....pause. Well, I really admire(pick a quality that applies) a hard working, intelligent woman, and I find you interesting.

She pauses for 10 seconds staring right at me(felt like ten minutes)

Then busts out laughing. I mean crackin the hell up holding her stomach.

Im like oh no shes gonna dog me big time.

Then she says "you know, that is the sweetest thing a guy has ever said to me, I cant believe u went through all that trouble just to say hi. "and your right IO am hardworking, i work too much"

Then she puts her hand on my shoulder and introduces herself.

Now, I feel ive broken through and I REALLY want to forget the gaming and just talk, but I decide to follow through.

I say "people will think we are together, I better roll"

She says "you're too much"

I say no serious, I gotta roll. (i took away what she had, my attention, and women supposedly hate when they lose what they have)

So what happens? She follows me

im like holy shit she's following me, am i dreaming? LOL

So I let her follow me till we got close to the exit, and I say "here put your number in my cell, and I'll call you"

She does and smiles and waves.

Guess its all uphill from here LOL

I got lucky I guess but who gives a shit she had huge knobs and was really cute!

This afternoon: Round lunch time I called:

I knew I had to meet expectations with high energy and something funny to say, cause this first impression might ware off eventually.

I called and told her that I was the guy on the other side of the mall, but I never got to say hello because some jerk got to her first....

Well shes still laughing and light hearted, so I set up our first date. We are going to Medieval Times restaurant and tournament...(a restaurant where you eat dinner while some people act out scenes from medieval times, here in Joisey)

So, I dont have much to complain about right now, least not until I get the bill.

I wonder if I should make her pay? What do you playas think?

Great opening..the "you're interesting line" is a very good one I use it a lot in direct openers. In my opinion, you should do something else instead of going to eat together at a restaurant. That's too "boyfriend" material and too..how can I say this..everyone plans a date to a restaurant. You can spice it up a little bit maybe do a fun activity. Also..dinner and sex are not a good combination so if you want to FC her after the restaurant, it's going to be harder than if you woud've I don't know maybe gone skating or something else. Be more creative with your day 2 but I'm interested to see how this will go..in my opinion don't pay for the full bill..expect her to contribute at least something. She's not your girlfriend so why would a man with high value buy a 100$ meal to a girl he just met? Think about it

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You might be right about that. Thats just how I do things, Im not 18 any more. LOL

Yeah everybody plans dinner, but not something like this which she hasnt seen before.

But u reminded me of what i read in "how to succeed with women" where they say u need to plain out the details of the date, to make it a fun experience, not just the standard dinner, maybe we fuck, and good night LOL

I dont mind buying dinner, but I might show her how "different" I am by not trying to score first date.

then I have to make sure to use disconnects, I dont want to kiss her ass all night. literally yeah but not figuratively LOL

but thanks for the tip, I have to start thinking like a young horny bastard again.

Tonight, i was in shop rite, and I cant say I approached but I just started talking to a woman in front of me on the automatic cashier aisle.

She was having all kinds of trouble cause it wasn't reading her produce right, and she looked back at me and rolled her eyes. I simply said

"These things are supposed to be helping us right? Shes like yeah sure, theres never a time when i dont have trouble with this.

I said well maybe its what your wearing ( a neg, lol) im embarrsed to be negging but Im trying things out.

So she didnt know how to take it and kinda looked the other way.

I said well, what your wearing should be fine for shopping I guess. She made one of those faces like "are u really fucking with me, Im aggravated enough"

I said Im sorry, im not going to comment on your clothes again, let's get off on the right foot, My name is 40 year old virgin brother LOL.

Shook her hand, hepled her bag her stuff, and I said if u can wait 5 minutes til im done Ill walk out with you, she didnt say anything, but waited.

Got to her car and loaded up her trunk, and said "well we had so much fun tonight we should do this again some time"

She says "long as I dont wear these clothes right"

I said well both make some changes...

exchange numbers....

2 for last 2, the streak is on

You invited her to dinner, not the other way around. You set yourself up for it so follow through. "Who pays for what" isn't as important as setting up the proper theme; this is an outing between two adults who will eventually fuck. As soon as you meet her, give her a big hug and a smooch on the cheek. Hold her hands and lead her around like a little puppy on a leash. After dinner, it would be nice to hear, "Can I help with that?" . . . and the answer is, "Sure, you can grab the drinks." Buy her the meal, take her to a bar. Let her buy a few drinks, suck face, take her home.

LoL. we went out already dude. I stopped with this journal, im even bored with it I can imagine what everyone else is.

I didnt have time to really plan it out like I should have, but I didnt want to overanalyze it, by the time I decided what to talk about with her, the night was here already.

We went out and we had a good time, I went out with no intention of fucking. We had dinner and watch the show the restaurant puts on, and then we drove around listening to music (I have shitloads of cd's and she was pulling them out as I drove, many of which she had never heard before. Classic Rock, Beach Boys,
The Clash.

But it was fun, she was fun to be around. We made out a bit at the end, and that was cool with me for a Tuesday night.

Next time will be payback time LOL

If you're not writing in this journal for yourself and most important so you can clearly analyze the mistakes you did in order to not repeat them again..if you're already bored with 3 posts in it that must mean you're not taking this seriously or you're not motivated enough

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^This is fine because:

1. He's content with what he's doing.
2. And what he's doing isn't bad at all. He's not making people around him miserable. He's being a normal guy who asks girls out on dates and is a gentleman enough to buy them dinners. . . and makes out with them. (This is what happy, regular people do.)
3. I'm not even sure why he began a journal in the first place. It's like writing a journal about a daily ritual of morning coffee.

U have a point, I'm motivated to find a special hottie, and a journal is not really for that, it's more about details of your game.

Thanks, and I'm not sure why I started one either LOL. sounded like a fun idea at first, but for my purpose, its not that helpful.