My girlfreinds brother who she is semi-close to talks down to her or calls her a bitch.

If it wasnt her family I would beat the living shit out of him, tbh I dont know what to do besides calm myself down.

What do/would you guys do if your lady's brothers verbally abused her?

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Getting angry is unattractive. Period. Dont get mad towards her own family at the end its still her family, turn it into humour i tell myn to make fun of him back think of a funny name to call him & tell her to call him that, i told myn to call her dad Pinochio cause hes skinny & lies LOL after her dad farted in her face & called her the beast from beauty & the beast LMFAO then she was like aww thanks babe ily blah blah blah so yeah you get the point?

Try not to get involved in her family relationships.As long as it doesnt involve you, She need to organise her personal family issues on her own

how old is your girlfriend?

does she still live at home?

or is she CHOOSING to maintain a regular and frequent relationship with these people who talk to her abusively?

my ex's family used to do that. the whole lot of them were worthless pieces of shit. serious. grown up highschool dropouts, strippers, drug dealers, serial felons.

i saved my ex when she was young. fell in love with her. supported through high school and college. showed her the "right" way of doing things.

they all hated on her for doing something with herself. even her OWN PARENTS did.

i wanted to take 'em all out chuck norris style.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

you can't really do much. they're family, period. support her as much as you can and try to save her from them, not beat them down.

18, yes.
I feel you

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