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| cunning_stunt | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:17 pm | |
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Posts: 343 | | Just wanted to know how differently you would treat someone you just wanted to fuck against a girl you actually thought you want for the long term..
Do you still try and K or F close a potential GF on the first night? etc..
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| SmoothOp | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:26 pm | |
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Location: Ontario, Canada | | Shit! Very interesting question... I would say wait but I really don't have any legit reasons behind it. I do lose interest in a girl fast if we have sex on 1st/2nd date, but I have never had negative emotions of their part.
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| LocoPuaBr | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:50 pm | |
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Posts: 101 | | I disagree with SmoothOp. Waiting is what all the other guys out there would do. We are different (and she would probably start thinking: "what is going on, i thought we had something). Treat her as you would treat a girl you only want to F close(this way you can more easily avoid being friendzoned) , and if she turns out to be interesting all the best.
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| cunning_stunt | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:51 pm | |
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Posts: 343 | | Its a weird one because I hear guys on the forum talk of finding a girl in a club, kissing her within 30 mins and then taking them home and fucking them at the end of the night.
Thats great and all that... but would you marry a girl who would do that?..
What if you did marry her and 2 years into the relationship, things werent going well, she goes to a bar with some friends - meets a guy and fucks him that night aswell?..
is that paranoid or realistic?.. what do you look out for in a girl to avoid?
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| P-Style | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 8:18 pm | |
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Location: Belgium | | It probably won't be the first time you've kissed a girl within minutes or less and fucked her later on that night. The same will go for her. Does it mean you are totally unreliable?
A girl that wants to cheat will cheat and someone who doesn't won't. Plain simple.
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| LocoPuaBr | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 9:51 pm | |
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Posts: 101 | | P-Style just said it all. She might not be hard to get, but that doesn't mean she is not what people call gf-material (even tough, imo, such a thing does not exist) . Especially in night-game, a quick close is not unusual.
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| Warped Mindless | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:26 pm | |
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Posts: 2197 | | I do the same with all women. However, if I find that a woman is really cool and I want to keep her around, I'll still sleep with her asap. The next day I call her and go out for coffee or something. From there just start hanging out with her.
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| om3n | PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:31 pm | |
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Posts: 158 | | I sleep with them ASAP because it feels great and it also changes the dynamic a lot. Anyway, you can see different patterns in every girls' behaviour which help you to determine if this particular one is going to be a fb or if she deserves more.
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| EddieFews | PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:36 am | |
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Location: NYC | | I always suggest, getting her to the point of sex and then saying something like, "no, im gonna wait" if your about to bang a potential MLTR on the first night just because it will help her perception of you in the long run. A girls going to act the way you treat her, if you treat her like your typical random one night stand thats what she will see herself as to you. _________________ Email me: EddieFews@WayOfThePlayer.com For 1 on 1 coaching or consultation via SPAM, phone or IM.
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