hey guys,
I'd like to know what is that you would like to learn, something that usually is not commented in forums or books. I wish someone had thought me how to handle rejection. What about you?

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

That is a good goal to aim for. When you can do that, you have no fear.

I would like to re-learn to care and get excited about stuff. During my PUA training I have learned to not get too excited about anything, anything goes you know. Whatever is my favorite word. Now, having been around and having seen many things, I have a problem of getting interested in the regular everyday things that people in general get excited about. It takes the edge off life somehow.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

You are saying that you don't feel excited about seduction anymore because everything goes like you wanted?

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

That is up to you man, if you feel confident enought you can tell her you can go and see his scars or you can stay with me and have the best night of your life ( maybe that's too much)

you can say something like " he might have scars but I'm sure I'm much more charming"

or I have scars too " When I was 11.... "

Like I said it's up to you. What do you think?

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

I think the best way to handle an interruption like this is to look at the guy then look back at the girl with an "who is this wierdo" expression and then ignore him. Fewer girls than you think are into all this butch military macho stuff, what will hurt you is if you feel inferior.

A lot of this is about how you feel, if you were in exactly the same situation but the woman was actually your wife or long term girlfriend do you think some guy showing off his scars is really going to interrupt the conversation the two of you are having? You'd either ignore him or tell him to piss off.

Im saying that I dont get very excited about much in general, not like I used to. Not only about seduction. I have gotten used to be content with what I have and it makes me non-reactive. Im comfy, no need for anything. Problem is, it isnt true, I want a lot of stuff, I just dont have the drive I used to.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

What's stopping you to do what you want? You know what, I tknow this is going to sound stupid but if you want something there are no excuses, I'm starting my own project and I think about it every day since I wake up until I go to sleep and it's hard but I want this more than anything so I'm not gonna stop until I get it, stop saying you are tired, stop saying you don't have time... just stop and do it.

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

Umm, there is nothing stopping me from doing anything. That is not my problem, my problem is that I dont care enough.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn