| I've been reading a lot of posts on this site for awhile now, and a lot of people give great advice. But from DHVing, to negging, to escalation ladders, to NLP patterns, to Alpha Maleness, to Amoging, to a thousand and one other interesting names, I'm reading a lot of newbies posts as well, who are wondering if they DHVed correctly, or how to avoid getting Amoged, or a dozen other question and inquiries that all come down to, "I'm not getting dates and I'm not getting laid."
I thought about this for awhile, and figured I'd give the simple six step procedure to get dates and get laid. This isn't anything new, this isn't a system. This is simply what all of pick-up-artistry is broken down into its simplest form. It is the human mating ritual if you would. Lex Parsimonae, The SImplest Answer Is Usually the Right One.
Approach Her: Nothing can be done if you don't walk up to her and at least say Hi.
Capture her Attention: From M3 routines, to pick-up lines, to looking like a star, to peacocking, to any and all methods that are involved in the approach, everything boils down to Capturing Her Attention. I'm personally fond of observation and open ended questions, meaning questions that involve more than one word answers.
Maintain her Attention: The simplest way to maintain someone's attention is to talk about them. However, every solitary system of pick-up has a method for maintaining attention, don't over think it, like I said, it's as simple as asking her, "What Do You Do?" and following that with, "That sounds really interesting... is it your Dream Job though?"
Look For IOI's: If she's not giving you any signals that she's attracted to you, as in, not giving you her full attention, not doing any of the IOI's in any of the material, not pointing her feet in your direction, or leaning toward you, then, bale and approach someone else... don't waste your time with women that aren't interested--they might not be interested for a lot of reasons, none of which have to do with your game. If you get IOI's continue the conversation.
Lead Her Attention: This is now the mid game, this is where you begin to test how much she likes you, this is where you ask her outside, or to a booth, you take control of the conversation and the topic and see if she goes along with you. Once you're leading the conversation, you are set for the final part of seduction.
Set a Context (or a frame): You subtly move the conversation to topics that set a frame for connection, for dating, for hanging out sometime, or for going home with you that night. You're escalating your physical touching, moving hair from her face, touching her knee or thigh. Now you can set the context for a make-out session, you can set the context for going home with you that night, or you can set the context for meeting up sometime later. Obviously, the venue you're at will have a big weight on the frame you make and on where you touch--in grocery stores it might just be constant shoulder and hand touching.
To review, Approach, Capture Attention, Maintain Attention, Look for IOI's, if you get none (I say within 90 seconds to 3 minutes), move to another woman, if you get IOI's, and you're still interested, Lead Her Attention, and then set a Context.
I hope this can be helpful.
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