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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 3:34 pm 
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I cant bring myself to sleep with girls that arent good looking. I have done it before and afterwards I feel physically sick and I just want them gone because I regret it so much.

that's just me. everyones different.
You're right. And like I said, I'd rather be alone for a
while then hook up with an ugly chick.

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I fully agree with the person who says that gaming a six is no different than gaming a 10. I prefer the idea of going after women you desire. The fact is that some women I'm attracted to are 8's and 9's, some, for one reason or another, beautiful breasts, kinky side to them, or they fulfill something that attracts me, I've gone with 5's and 7's as well.

I think too much is placed on whether a woman is beautiful, which might effect a lot of guys game, they might think they need to approach 10's, when they're attracted to that 7 at the corner, but that's not being a PUA they think, so, they're going after women they're not interested in, and then wondering why they're not getting laid.

I think it's much more important to go after the women you are the most attracted to. Sometimes it might be the most beautiful woman in the room, other times it might be the average girl.


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True. Beauty is the eye of the beholder... But what a 10 to me
may look like a 7 to you and vise versa.

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True. Beauty is the eye of the beholder... But what a 10 to me
may look like a 7 to you and vise versa.
But that's not the point. The point is that you don't treat a 10 differently just because she's hotter in terms of gaming her.


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But that's not the point. The point is that you don't treat a 10 differently just because she's hotter in terms of gaming her.
If that's the case we all might as well just shag the UG's
and forget about game entirely...

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But that's not the point. The point is that you don't treat a 10 differently just because she's hotter in terms of gaming her.
If that's the case we all might as well just shag the UG's
and forget about game entirely...
Expand?

My point is that you don't need to treat a woman differently because of her looks. Hot women do not require special skills, tricks, etc, in comparison to average women.


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I don't know which planet your on, but on Earth, the hot
girls do require more attention and gaming because
their social value is higher because you need to
demonstrate more of your own value to them
so they can invest in you. Compared to
average girls, the average girl will
require less work because her
value is less.

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Guys this is really for the guys who are getting no results. I'm just saying, if they do not have unreasonable standards then they should have sex with a few average looking women to get used to the idea of having sex. I think it is time wasting to worry about looks. Guys talk about all the hot women they talk to but then they don't really do anything other than talk. Why worry about talking when you can do?


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I guess this thread doesnt really apply to me?

Ive gotten over my 'practice stage.' I only want beautiful women now - because average girls dont really inspire or motivate me. . .

Sure in field I will talk to average and ugly looking girls. They still can be great to converse with.

But why should I settle?

This thread relates more to those who are still 'practicing' rather than 'performing' so to speak... agree? disagree?

After I realized I can go out and fuck lots of girls including the average ones, it got tiresome. And I got to a point where I realized I would rather have quality over quantity any day.

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No, this thread is directed to people who have not had much sex.


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No, this thread is directed to people who have not had much sex.
And I maintain my point in that regard.

If you get to thinking that the super-hot women need different or better approaches to them, you'll end up thinking they are better than you, and that's an awful state of mind to be in.


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There's nothing wrong with gaining sexual experience. The problem lies in this part:
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What I'm saying is that some guys view having sex with average women first and moving up to nice looking women last is the way to go. What is inherently wrong about a guy "moving up the ladder" as he goes?
This is coming from the mindset of: "the hotter the girl, the more difficult it is to get her in my bedroom".

By this logic you'll never have sex with attractive girls, the 10's, the one's you want.

In my experience it's: the hotter the girl, the friendlier she is.

Beauty is subjective anyway, what you think of as a nice looking woman, might be butt-ugly in your friends' eyes.

To be honest there's only 1 scale you should hold woman up to, that's: Would I do her? Yes/No/Maybe
('Maybe' are the woman you would do, but only when you're intoxicated.)

Anything else is just mental masturbation and food for the ego:
"DUDE I SCORED A 9.4 YESTERDAY, SHE WAS HOTTER THAN THE 8.9 I SCORED LAST WEEK!"

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