There is this HB7 i tried to pick up in the Summer at a house party when I was a AFC and I was rejected. The following morning at the house she smiling at my direction constantly giving my IOI's.

A few weeks after this she invites me to her house party but I was on holiday

Since September at school she keeps giving me the eye but have only had about 2 conversations with her in 12 months and my year is very small only having 40 ppl in it. There is a social awkwardness between us and she is in a different social group to me. In the common room everyone sits within every1s social group and she isnt in any of my classes and we dont share the same frees, so there is no easy way to game her in school. We havent been to the same the party since the one in the Summer and dosent look like one will occur in the future.

Recently this guy in her social group is getting lifts by her to school and she is giving him IOIs but no were near as many to me , the problem is it will be only a matter of time before something will occur between them. I mean to steal her from his jaws but I'm wondering how, maybe facebook her but that is really lame and AFC.

Any advice will be appreciated

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Quit lollygagging and ask her out. FB, texting, emails = waste of time.

When I first read this I thought you said he was driving her around, in which case he's a chump. If she's driving him around, then you might have something to worry about.

Still, I'd talk to her in real life. Avoid Facebook, texting, and email at this point in the game. Ask her to hang out sometime, just you and her. Ask her if she wants to get coffee before class so she doesn't have time to give this guy a lift. If she's more interested in you than she is in him, chances are pretty good she'll take you up on the offer. If she's not that into you and has the hots for the other guy, she'll most definitely turn you down.

Should I try and build social comfort before asking her out or just go for it? and she is driving him

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I'd just go for it. I mean, what have you got to lose? The fact that you tried unsuccessfully to get with her in the past means that she's aware of your interest in her. Any interaction with her on your part will most likely be interpreted as a come-on, which, let's be honest, is exactly what it is. Since both of you are fully aware of your intentions, any beating around the bush is just going to make things awkward.

Just my opinion.

That was exactly what I have been thinking for ages so thanks for finally helping me make my mind up with solid advice.

Normally when she is giving me the eye I have been avoiding looking in her direction to give IOD's, but know I will return the gaze and meet her eye to eye. After about 3 times of this I will give the eye and a small smile to build more attraction. If she respond positively I will ask her soon.

If this is a bad idea or could do it with some improvement tell me asap please so I don't make a fool of myself ,cheers.

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