First, I apologize if this isn't the correct section, I'm not really sure where it would fit. Either way, I'm in some what of a pickle. There's a girl I've had a serious vibe with since the second I've met her(lets call her GirlA), the only problem is she's best friends with a girl I used to fool around with(GirlB). I've been upfront with her about my intentions with her and she seemed receptive, often times suggesting herself that we hang out which make me think she's also into me. The problem is she always backs out because her allegiances are with GirlB and is concerned with how it would make her feel.(GirlA has been in love with me since like 8th grade and as of 4 months ago still was even though she's had numerous boyfriends and currently has one). I've tried just about everything except go directly to GirlB and ask for her blessing so to speak(I haven't bothered because in passing she's made comments like 'out of everyone you can't like her' or some bullshit) I dont want to hear about oneitis or any of that, this isnt stopping me from going out for other girls, it's just that if i had my choice id get with her. I'm going out for GirlB's bday this weekend and GirlA will most definitely be there, I plan on doing something reckless to put a definitive yes or no to this situation just to get rid of it, I'm tired of wondering if I'll wife her up or not. TIPS ARE APPRECIATED, you're welcome to be a dick but in that case, go fuck yourself.

I dont see the problem here...

You are aproved by GirlB and aproved by GirlA

Let them fight to the death.

You dont ask permission, you go simple for what YOU want. She is just making it a challenge for you.

My experience tells them.. they will enter competitve mode to try and win you over.

Tell her past is past, I want to be with you now...

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!