So about a month ago i met this nice girl in a bar, immediately f-closed the deal and didnt really do that much afterwards (i was thinking one night stand at that time), just the polite how you doing kind of text message.

later on she initiated everything and started inviting me over for dinner, etc.

now, one month later; she is " in a relationship" on facebook, doing my laundry, cooking my meals, ...

If it werent for things being this easy i could probably fall in love with her, she's nice, fun and a beast in the sack. The only problem is that within a month she has become my superfan.

Im thinking eject, but on the other hand my life has never been easier, im currently working out a lot, its nice to have your meals cooked when your home that late and completely exhausted. That and some great sex. So from that perspective sticking around and seeing how things evolve looks ok

anyways, is there a way to reduce a chick's clingyness and in the event of the clingyness getting higher a way to properly eject?

Just retract yourself. If you want to spend some time without her, do so. If you aren't comfortable with her thinking that it's a "relationship," tell her you aren't ready for that commitment, then behave as normal. (She may make a big deal out of this. Tell her that her pushing you to commit is the same thing as you pushing her to have sex if she was a virgin or really didn't want to.)

Sounds like a very nice set-up to me. I would ride that for a while til some drama sets in.

What he said. You should realize what a nice situation you are in. Enjoy it until it's enjoyable.