it's different.

guys have to work for sex, girls can just 'have' it.

we ALL know that.

it's different.

don't believe me?

walk out onto any street corner with a bunch of guys there and shout "who wants to fuck me?"

and see what happens...

i'll walk across town and do the same thing.

you would be mobbed by guys hitting on you while i was in the back of the police cruiser on my way to lockup. lol

men and women are different creatures.

sex is different for us as well.

it means different things. it has different implications. it says different things about our character.

politically correct? hell no.

truth? hell yes.

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How can a person who had seduced so many women (ok remove the hookers) have low self esteem, I do not comprehend

Just because hes fucking lots of women doesnt mean he's seducing them......I mean, if dudes banging hookers, then he's probably banging HB1's and 2's that make Rosie O'Donnell look like a 10.......Just because a girl is a HB10 and fucks a lot dudes...doesn't mean she's a confident roller either..Most likely she has the same type of self esteem issues..and the sex is a medication of sorts.



Anyway......I gotta move to wherever you guys are from if you're thinking a girl who has fucked 4-7 guys is a high number.... All the girls I've known since high school were in double digits by the time they were 18...add a few more years, I know girls who have been with well over 20, 30 guys. Sadly, I was friends with a couple real cool, attractive girls who openly wrote down their lists with me there and the numbers were staggering.............

I normally don't care how many dudes a girls been with...to an extent. I obviously prefer a girl with little or no miles.

But like I said, most girls I've known have gotten around...alot...and being so young, with so many numbers, pretty much tells me she doesn't respect herself. And I don't care to be around people who don't respect themselves when I'm trying to become a better person myself...So there is a line to draw in there somewhere depending who you are and how you look at this stuff

Its different for men and women. Women with low esteem still can have lots of partners, only thing they have to do is agree to have sex when some random dude aproaches her.

For men to have that much sex they have to have decent social skills to speak to woman, at least some confidence to approach them and so on. If you picked up 75 women you have some good social skills, if you have good social skills how come you can be called man with low self esteem?

I say 75 just to assume that half of those 150 were hookers.

I just simply can not imagine ANY GUY with low self esteem being able to pick up so many women..

You are completely underestimating the ugly and fat women that might have 1-3 guys per week even say "hello" to them in public...

I'm willing to bet that if dude is banging that high number of girls....and has low self esteem....then more often than not, he is fucking those fat ugly girls I just mentioned. If you take a person, doesn't matter if its man or woman.....if you take a person who receives little to no social interaction from the opposite sex..then it doesnt matter what you say really because over time, they become somewhat desperate for attention once you give it to them. They will agree with almost anything you bring up. They will do almost anything you say. They do that because they NEVER get the attention you are giving them.

It is my opinion, without knowing the guy, that he is going after easy targets like this. He's going for hookers for crying out loud...Its already a known fact that the guy is NOT going after QUALITY WOMEN!

Well because think of it this way, you're fucking her and you realize someone else's dick has been in this exact spot. You're essentially touching dicks- which is gay. You want someone who has the least penis contact as possible. Preferably none.