Hey guys,

I'm not sure whether here's the right place to ask such question.

here's the case, I'm gonna leave to other country for several months.

since I know such pick-up skills, i can tell that my girl is facing som PUA. The guy just met my girl once, went shopping for several hours yesterday, and asked her out for dinner tonight, another several hours, just they two. since I have a lot of work to do, I don't have time to accompany my girl this weekend. and I'll go abroad next week, for several months. I don't think I can control all her daily life, meet whom and do what. so any advice to prevent my gril be picked up by other PUA, during my abroad trip?

or maybe I should not worry about this, just go out and pick up more new girls?

what're your guys' opinions?

You can't control what another person does. If she strays, she strays...better learning sooner than later. Why is she chilling with a guy she hardly knows? That'd be a concern of mine. A lot of women are either naive as to the guy's true intent and simply see things as harmless (until, that is, he makes a move and they begin feeling awkward), or she's simply playing her options.

The only way you can minimize (but not prevent) the possibility, is to be such a great guy that she won't want anyone else.

If you're going away for a couple of months, it's going to be very difficult. I would just let it be but prepare myself mentally in case of a dissapointment (eg she does another guy).

Women know the deal, they just play dumb so they can get away with things.

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Not true at all, if you've ever had any female friends you'd know better. There are some girls out there who hangout with guys because they have fun around them, that's it (there is no sexualization of the relationship whatsoever - at least from her end) - once they discover it's more for him she'll usually distance herself and/or makeup some bullshit about having a man or the LJBFs conversation rears its head.

Of course this guys trying to fuck your girl if he hasn't already and you're handing her to him on a silver platter.

I would never allow something like to ever happen. No dude is going to be taking my girl out shopping and dinner. Did she even bother asking if it was ok to go to dinner/shopping with this guy if she did ask you let me guess you said, ' Yeah It's cool" if so you sir are an idiot.

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Keep a cool head.


Act nonchalant about it.


But be firm:


'I think we might want different things from this relationship ******. I don't agree with you going shopping with another man that you have just met. Its your choice but I can't see myself being with someone exclusively if they want to act like that.'

Why is she going shopping for hours with another guy she just met?
How do you know they are having dinner tonite?
How do you know they haven't yet kissed or slept together?

I'd say, have the most rollicking sex that you can with her - just blow her mind off. That usually leaves an impression and she'll remember you while you are gone

No point in stopping her from seeing the guy, since u'd be gone anyways and she'd imagine what the possibilities cud have been. This is something that she has to figure out but the odds are against you.

You cud go to dinner with them, be a gentleman to her. But make it obvious to her that you are the better guy - that is something you'd have to figure out. But things like being the more sexual, funnier, wittier, better of the two men wud blow the guy out.

This is a tough situation - sorry man.

Good Luck
Marc

Dude you got issues if you need to control your girlfriend. Either you trust her or you don't end of story. The fact that you need to control her says you don't trust her enough and best to break up with her over your insecurity issues.
So you are going to cheat on your girlfriend because you can't control her? What is this suppose to do?