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PostPosted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:44 am 
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I'm really tired of guys looking for excuses to not do somethimg wether is talking to a girl or ask her out. Stop that, the only worse thing than failing is not trying and we all make mistakes; it doesn't matter how good or bad you are at this you are always going to get rejected. All those MPUAs that you read about have failed lots and lots and lots of times and that's one of the reasons why they are so good.

I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
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REMEMBER, LIFE = RISK


Stop reading so much about this whole pick up thing and go out and get the experience that you need, information without experience is useless.

Here you have 4 videos that I watch every day - Please watch them, you won't regret it- if you have a dream or if you want something whatever it is don't stop until you get it. Don't let people tell you "You can't do it" there are no impossible things, there are things easier to get than others that's all.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzBCI13r ... plpp_video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V6xLYt26 ... plpp_video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7X38PCf7 ... plpp_video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqZlrywa ... plpp_video

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great post! i need and will watch these videos every day :)
Just to add one of my favorite quotes from movies i've seen in these videos:
"The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place... and I don´t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me or nobody, is gonna hit as hard as life. But ain't about how hard you hit... It's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward... how much you can take, and keep moving forward. That´s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you worth, go out and get what you worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits. And not pointing fingers saying: You ain´t what you wanna be because of him or her or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain´t you! You´re better than that!" (Rocky Balboa)

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Deja vu


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iv improved a lot since i started but these video made me wanna push myself even harder. and be a pro!! ... thanks for the inspiring videos OP!!

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 13, 2012 7:30 pm 
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Thanks man, this post is exactly what i know i should be telling myself. I always feel like if i just learn a little more I'll be totally ready to die in as deep as i want to. but there's always more to learn, and an endless list of excuses to over-analyze. I gotta get myself out there more and this is encouraging.


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I've you really want to see a motivational movie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ciYk-UwqFKA

There you go!

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 2:33 am 
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That is true. Yes these guys got rejected, but they got good not because they got rejected many times, yes it's important, but more importantly, they liked seducing girls! They liked the process. Liking it is more important above all, it's a hobby. Rejection is not all that bad, rejection is just a dare she throws at you that you either accept and be persistent and don't give up or decline it. it's up to you entirely.

I've been rejected many times, but I can't say that I failed, because I accepted every rejection. I liked it. It's my hobby. Emotions I get are so great that I don't care about rejections.


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An inspirational song from a bloody irish punk band :D

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-51tD4fv0o[/youtube]

"Be whatever you want to be"


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What's up with all the caps and yelling? Although your message is a good one, it will by no means reach your target audience. I wish guys would stop these quasi-motivational threads and allow people to rot and fail. Allowing men to hit their asses a few times is a thousand times more effective than yelling at them why they suck so much.

A guy stuck in depression does not and will not hear what you have to say. You have to allow a person to make the autonomous decision to fail. Only after a person sees the error or fault in their ways will they change. Quasi-motivational threads never help.


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I love that video as well. Good choice.
This is the whole point of this thread, you always have to keep fighting if you really want something but it's going to cost you, the good thing is that there is always a reward

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I love not having excuses, really. I don't have to explain my failures or apologize to anyone, including myself.

On my last night out, (small rock concert) I made a girl giggle and blush just by eye contact, but I didn't approach. Yeah, there was a crowd between us, yeah, I took a too big sip of beer right afterwards and it dripped down my face, yeah, she was with a girlfriend and I was with friends, but I could've approached and I know it, and I have nobody to blame myself. The cause of failure is in front of me, loud and clear, ready to be accepted and corrected by me in the future.

I like this mentality. Imagine how much healthier people would be if they learned not to blame their genes, their big bones, or the last holiday season for their fatness, (even though they sit on their asses all day and eat junk food) for example. They would realize the problem is with themselves and they can change. That's how people gather the courage to sign up for a gym and change themselves.

Heck, this whole community is based on the "no excuses" mentality! So many guys blame the unfair world, the media, or "that bitch" for things not working out in their love life, or, more accurately put, why they are still virgins. When they admit their problem ("I don't understand what women find attractive") that's when they google "how to pick up girls", find the community, and turn their life around.

Having no excuses is great. Embrace it.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 24, 2012 9:05 am 
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Heck, this whole community is based on the "no excuses" mentality! So many guys blame the unfair world, the media, or "that bitch" for things not working out in their love life, or, more accurately put, why they are still virgins. When they admit their problem ("I don't understand what women find attractive") that's when they google "how to pick up girls", find the community, and turn their life around.

Having no excuses is great. Embrace it.
I'm completely agree with you, this whole seduction thing is based on no excuses, I'm tired about guys complaining that she's a bitch or she's this or she's that. Stop complaining and start thinking what you did wrong. There is nothing wrong with failing but don't blame other people just accept that you did and try to learn from that experience.

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Just posting so I can easily find this post back.
So I'll can check it out every day

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