Ive re read your post, and she only notifies you a couple of hours before the day?

What a disrepectful bitch.

Never mind.

Called her out..." you shouldve told me sooner, but nevermind good luck."

Do you really want something with a girl who clearly doenst respect you.

You cant, go find another bitch the world is full of those girls.

Hey. I know email is lame as hell but it would take too long to send this on my phone.

Look, I am not upset at you for canceling the other night. Not even upset that you waited until a few hours before we were supposed to meet up to tell me and that you made me be the one to call you instead of having the decency to let me know sooner.... I ended up having a great night. I am an adult and I am not going to be petty and I don’t get upset over things like this. But it has definitely caused me to rethink some things.

From now on this is the way things are going to be.. If you don’t have the time to commit for face to face meet ups and you are busy with other things that is totally cool with me and I completely understand. But here is the thing, if you don’t have that kind of time then please don’t contact me. I’m done with the games. It’s as simple a that. Don’t text me, don’t call me, take care of your business. I’m not some needy guy and this isn’t an ultimatum. It’s just not fair to me anymore to commit so much time into you and not being able to take things too much further than a phone screen. I can spend this time hitting up other girls if this is the case.

You are a very sweet, adorable girl and I still think you are awesome. I’m not trying to play games or make you “ compete for my attention “ , but I have a life too and I have to pursue other girls if you are not available and I can’t just wait here for you hoping that you can fit me into your schedule.

If you have the time then by all means text me and we’ll make plans, but under no circumstances do I care to hear from you if you are busy and have too much going on in your life. It is nothing personal at all and I think you are a great person, but I’ve played this game with you for almost two months and every week its a different excuse and quite honestly I have other people that I can spend time with and I am done with the games The ball is in your court but at this point if there is going to be anything between us that is how its going to be. Take it or leave it.

Did anything happen on the last friday?

Lol alright sounds good. Thanks for the advice!

Hey guys. I could use a bit of advice.

I met this girl about a month and a half ago. We have been texting back and forth pretty consistently during this time and we both seem to contribute equally to the conversations. Most of our conversations take place through text because she has been busy moving and she is also going to school full time and working full time. Last week I finally convinced her to hang out with me at my place after she got to know me a little bit more.

Fast forward to this week and I asked her to do it again and she agreed. This was Sunday Night that we made plans to hang out on Friday. Well Friday afternoon I texted her to see if we are still on ( I know it’s kind of a beta move ) , and she said that she needed to find a new roommate to help with the rent and that it was the only day that she could get off and that she was sorry she had to cancel. She said she made these plans Wednesday but didn’t tell me because she wanted to be sure.

I tried to play it cool the best I could but I was kind of an asshole about it and let my anger seep through. I replied with “ No problem good luck “ and she texted me asking if I was upset and I tried to play it cool but then we kept texting and I blurted out “ I kinda expected you to cancel anyways thats why I was making sure, don’t worry you aren’t irreplaceable at this point “ and of course this did not go over well. I left things with “ Just give me some space and let me clear my head “ and I haven’t spoken to her in a few days.

What is the best way to recover from this? If I get in touch with her it may appear needy but honestly that may be too late for me at this point. Give it more time and let her try and get back in touch or just bite the bullet and text her now and try to play it off like that was no big deal?

You don't think it's kind of needy and beta to initiate texting with her after she bailed on me? I feel like if I am the one that initiates contact that I am giving her way too much power and control.