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Okay when I go out I have no problem making out with girls every time. But every time I try to bring them back to F-Close it never works out. I bounce them to different locations sometimes with their friends and sometimes on their own.
I try and go direct in asking them if they are DTF and other times I go indirect just try to be chill and see if they want to get out of here or show them something at my place or say theirs a party at mine or whatever... BUT EVERY TIME they always go to look for their friends or go somewhere else (bathroom...) and after they completely lose interest in me. This has happened to me countless times over the last few months. IT IS SOOO FRUSTRATING!
What can I do to stop this happening to me and get LAID!!??
Don't make out with girls at parties if your goal is to take them home.. making out diffuses sexual tension. You want to build sexual tension (and social proof). Also, it helps to have good logistics. Make it easier for her to justify going back to your place.. either have an after-party or have something cool you want to show her at your place (a hookah works well, or hottub, or a good movie).
-Wolf