Hello everyone,

First I would like to say thank you to all of you in this community for contributing so much into my changes in life.

Second, I do believe that looks matter but not so much ONLY IF you know how to and have the right confidence to talk to women.

Now moving to my case. I do understand that it is all in my mind but it does effect me and thats that. I will not bitch about it but instead make changes that will make me feel better.

I am easy going with women, fun, polite, understanding and sometimes women are attracted to me because I sometimes act/look like a bad boy . However, I am 5'6" and weigh 150 pounds. The height to weight ration may sound fine but actually even though I have an athletic body, I look kind of skinny and above all like a young boy trying to grow up. This is because my bones are thin and that can be seen from my wrist, forearms and arms. I do not portray a manly image. That is my problem! When women meet me and talk to me they like me and not just as a friend but in a sexual way, lets say I intrigue them. The last 2 weeks I meat 2 girls through a friend of mine. Both are HB5-HB6 but both said I am not their style and of-course they said that because they are a bit shorter than I am and with high hills taller. Standing next to me they look more grown and larger in body size than me.

Having said all that I think I should focus in putting on muscle and growing in size so women don't perceive me as non-manly or young or boyish! I am 30 years old with short facial hair and I look boyish? I have a very good dressing style and I am well groomed and I am sure about that since my female friends have confirmed it loads of times, young and old (22-45).

I am a bit tired of women playing with me to get other men. Touching me and laughing with me all night, asking me to go to the dance floor with her just to pick-up other guys. Of-course I talked to her and danced with her and touched her myself but last night I just refused to play her game when I saw she was a bit more intimately affectionate with 2 other men (of-course taller and larger than I am). I got really really mad but I did keep my cool. You could say I could use them as well but other women don't seem to be interested in me and to be honest I am not that bad looking. I would say above average at least but with a skinny skeleton I look thin!

I am really sad today after two weeks of going out constantly, meeting people, having fun and projective a very positive energy, I am now on the downside...

Please help me my fellow forumees

Thanks

I know its a really boring post but does anyone have any advice apart from stop from affecting your game?

sure... two things from me:
Start lifting weights... witnessing the changes on your body will make you feel better and more confident.
and...
Read this post: the-halo-effect-do-looks-have-to-matter-vt125880.html

Thank you my friend for your answer. I appreciate it. I have started lifting weights but my friends tend to tell me that I don't need to change my body since it is already athletic. This pisses me off because they don't seem to understand that I might be athletic but I weigh a little more than an average woman or they don't want to hurt my feelings. I just want to make sure I am not crazy!!!