I cant remember where i read this but it said

"kissing is very important.its a sensual way to express your feelings. Kissing is a deal breaker!!...its like going to a restaurant and the starter is bitter and horrible.it'll make you think the main course will be bad too won't it?"

Do you guys think there is importance in being a good kisser,If someone that isn't good at it, can be taught??..If so what are some tips or ways I can improve on this(cause I've only kissed a few girls)

yes, very important.

I sware sometimes when I think of this girl I was dating for a few months, she was gorgeous but in the back of mind I always thought, damn she is a horrible kisser. and I never really ever felt like hooking up with her ever again .

but ive met some other not as attractive girls who are very good kissers, and well they've got me craving it.

Yes, it's very important. Girls judge how you'll be in bed by the way you kiss. Most women love kissing and get turned on by making out so being good at it is important.

Some tips. Be relaxed about it, don't hurry. Watch your tongue, don't get it too rigid and avoid boring centrifugal movements. Don't stuff your tongue down her throat, be playful with it. Watch the dynamic of the kiss, start slowly just kissing her lips and prolonging it with each next kiss. When you start tongue kissing, again start slowly, tease her with the tongue, don't push it too far in, keep it soft. As it gets heavier, you can give more tongue and longer kisses. Use your hands to caress her face and play with her hair. Pull her towards you when it gets passionate. Chicks love push pull, so when it gets really heavy, you can hold her face with both of your hands and totally, but totally slow down, run your tongue across her upper lip and caress her tongue with yours really gently and slowly, then go full in really passionate the next moment.
Kissing involves two people. Watch your mutual dynamic, her reactions etc. People have different styles of kissing and sometimes it takes a kissing session or two to get your own mutual style that turns both of you on.
The most important thing is to relax, enjoy and just do what feels good.
If you have any questions, ask

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Good advice, but how do actually get a hot girl to let you kiss her in the first place? :S

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTQmxmDJnxU

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

LOL It's a really broad subject. For one, she has to like you enough to want it. How to accomplish that is what this forum is all about. There's a section here called "routines", a lot of kiss close routines in there. If you think she likes you and are not sure how to get that first kiss going, you can try using one of those kiss close routines. Just be brave and use the momentum. If you're talking to a hot girl at a party and she seems interested in you, you have to be brave and go for it when you feel the time is right
"You'll miss 100% of chances you never take" I don't know who said it, but it applies for the first kiss.
Some girls are shy, some are not. You have to be able to recognize if she's open for a kiss. You can usually test it with a movement towards her, for example, you move your hand toward her earring to comment on it or take a better look, if she pulls her head back, she's not ready. Ot you move in to tell her something to her ear, if she pulls back, she's not ready.
How you get a girl to like you is a whole different question, but it's been answered here many times, use the search function

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Thank you!! Thats some good advice,you already answered most of my questions.
There's still a few more i want to ask hope you don't mind

Eye contact is it a good thing or a bad thing while you kiss, And are there certain situations where you should maintain eye contact??

During the kiss how do you know when to Increase the intensity and the tempo.Are there certain responses you have to look out for...if yes what should you look out for that will indicate that she wants you to increase/decrease the intensity and tempo of the kiss.??

Should there be any talking while taking a break between a make out session.Is a turn-on or just a distraction that can be annoying??

The duration...does it just end or will she decide when to end the kiss??

How do you neck kiss??

Thank you , your advice really helps

Eye contact to anticipate the kiss.

I usually go slow and playfull push pull the kiss.

CLOSE EYES WHEN YOU ARE KISSING.

Normally I end the kiss.

But go out and have fun... kid

You are overanalzying things. trust me

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

hey snake doc. ive read alot of your replys on the forum, your advice is great
thanks alot man

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I agree with Snake Doc, just feel the kiss and everything will flow naturally. You can't calculate it, you have to feel it, and you feel it when you just enjoy what feels good!
The neck kiss, don't suck on it because it will leave a red mark. Other than that, kiss it any way that feels good to you. Light bites are ok too, just be careful for the marks.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.