Hi Guys,

I'm new to PUA, I just started reading The Game and ran across this forum just a week or so ago.

I'm in my mid-20s, been told I'm a fairly good looking guy, especially when I'm in shape (which I'm back on track to be) and have never had problems socializing, making friends (both sexes), or making people laugh. However, I've never had a steady girlfriend since high school and just never had the mindset or confidence to go out and hunt for booty. I think much of it may have to do with my cultural background and upbringing (East Indian).

Anyway, fuck more information about me. I've decided that yes, although I want to settle down eventually with one woman, I still have time to play the field. I want to go into PUA guns blazing until my confidence and experience with women gets to a satisfactory point. I think what lit the fire under my ass is Sexual Frustration Realization, or SFR. Seems like acronyms are the norm within PUA, so I had to create my own! This is when a sexually inactive man realizes that most of his problems and misery stems from one fact: YOU'RE NOT GETTING LAID ENOUGH BRO.

So here's where I need your guys' advice. I've done enough research and have enough common sense to realize that a lot of these PUA boot camps and seminars are either bullshit or the same information regurgitated in 10 different ways, and usually overpriced. Reading can only take one so far, I'm a firm believer in studying theory, but at some point you must apply it or it doesn't mean shit.

I'd hate to have to bust my chops on my own, but I don't want to end up in some "lair" or seminar where their main goal is to rape my bank account. Any PUA that are actively looking for wings or guys to join in their group? I'm a quick learner, smart enough, I just need to get over the AFC hump.

Thanks everyone, the PUA gods will reward you for your genuine responses!

- PAV

First thing you need to learn is to lower your ego and to stop thinking that PUA bootcamps or PUA attraction models are bullshit. Only by that statement you show me you're an AFC. Pick a method that you think it suits your personality and stick with it for 6 months..you'll then see if it's bullshit or not. Yeah of course some imitators will try to bullshit you..but material written by Mystery, AFC Adam, Sinn, Gambler, etc... they are the real deal. You want to learn how to get laid start by reading something and applying it in real life

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Greatness is never borned

This is very lame opinion.

Seduction community offers the ultimate manual how to handle man-female interaction, from the total basics like opening to forming and stablishing emotionally stable relationships. Is uses combination of many sciences, like several branches of psychology and many others to create a manual how to handle sets in a smooth way.

And yes, the more intelligent you are and the more time you spend on this, the more of it you can apply. The more HBs you can have, the more quicker you can have them and the more HBs you can choose from.

It can only show you a great opportunity to become a better person.

It can only open door for you, you have to walk through it yourself.

Galaxy

Thanks for the feedback fellas.