I've been reading so much. You guys are awesome. I had to finally make a profile to finally ask a question. Here's the deal. I knew this girl and we were friends. She seemed like she would be a good lay, but I was basically a pussy and never really tried. (due to me being an AFC) She hinted before that "she's not like that" in random conversations i have had with her. We actually got in a fight about god knows what like a year ago and just stopped talking to her. We had sporadic facebook comments over the year but no conversations. Yesterday she commented on something i said. I just sent her a message afterwards and said "We have a years worth of catching up to do what day are we going out...."

I think the conversation went well, i told her ill drive to her new place and i will let her buy me drinks. i said we are only going out on a day where she doesn't work the next day. she doesn't work tomorrow so i said see you tonight. I tried to make all of the decisions. i tried to neg her a little when she asked what time we should go out. i said whatever time it will be for you to change from looking like you worked 12 hours to remotely attractive. she responded very quickly during this convo considering she's at work. She lives an hour away so she can't be expecting me to drive home.

I guess i'm just looking how to treat this situation considering she knows me (even though i'm better looking and way more confident than a year ago) and get as far as i can tonight.

Thanks for any help.

You obviously don't respect your friendship with her too much if you're planning on getting somewhere with her sexually.

YOU CAN AND SHOULD HAVE PLATONIC CHICK FRIENDS.

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I'm sure the guy took her out but, what's wrong with banging friends. I do it all the time. lol

Lol, this is funny, alot of PUA game is about not getting into the friends box, and even more so breaking out of it.

One hour away is putting alot of pressure on yourself to score.

I suggest you go on a date and see how you go. Kino escalation is key if you have enough comfort and rapport with her. Because she hasn't seen you in a year she will not know what to expect.

Having chick friends is healthy. If you can't have a chick friend that you aren't trying to fuck, it sends a bad message; you have no respect for women as people.

If you have high standards for women you sleep with, there are plenty of attractive women whose company you will enjoy.


Most assume you are with whoever you are out with, and they will let their guards down. The fact that you aren't sleeping with them implies standards and values, and that you have the option to sleep with women of that caliber, or higher.

Chick friends are good for you. You don't need to fuck everything that moves.

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