Hello from southwestern Ontario all.

The reason I am here is I am 24 and do not have very much experience with the opposite sex, for the most part I have avoided such situations. Recently I find myself greatly desiring more contact with people and after some research into improving my social skills I stumbled across Mystery's book and have decided that this seems like an approach that I can integrate into my generally analytically thought process.

What really spurred on this desire has been a serious case of oneitis lasting the last year, I made an attempt at the girl 2 months ago and have only received ambivalence in return, after reading the book I have identified my mistakes and hope to learn from them, the chief mistake being trying to convince her.

But I digress, I hope to learn here and thank you all in advance for your help.

Hello, I thought I would reply to this post instead of starting a new one. I'm also 24 and discovered this community through Style's book 'The Game'.

I've F-closed an unimpressive 2 women in total (1 of which I was with for 4 years!). The second more recently through persistent dating.

Think im at that point when I know this is my chance now to have some fun before it's too late!

Dazzle

Hey, its good to hear that you're getting this area of your life handled.

Remember goal setting is key. Small chunk it, don't just make it, tonight I'll go out and have a 3 way. I'm not the formost expert and I'm still learning about this subject, but its helped me in different areas of my life and studies.

Pick a method and try to stick to it. For me its like cooking. You don't start baking a wedding cake and then switch to making cookies with the same batter.

Get a wing. Having someone there to provide feed back and encouragement helps. Alot. Remember to try and keep it positive feed back and not negitive.

STICK WITH IT! To get good with anything takes time.

Im in a similar boat to you except I am 20, ironically enough the last girl I had sex with was from Southwestern Ontario. Cheers