Myself.
Hi, I go by Chuck. I am currently an AFC.
I am 26 (turning 27 in a month)
Live in the Okanagan of BC Canada
I am tallish, and good looking ( so at least I got something going for me if nothing else!)
I've been researching the theory of the game for a number of years now ( off and on with scepticism) when I purchased David DeAngelo's Interviews with Dating Guru's, Double your Dating and Doctor Paul's Omega Male series (of which I cannot find my cd's anymore after several moves
) at the age of 21.
I have since Bought a nice copy of 'The Game' by Style aka Neil Strauss, and watched the series 'The Pickup Artist' (which was most recent and now has probably finally hooked me in. Well done and thank-you to Mystery and Team)
I have yet to really apply myself with the PUA material. I've thought of it to be non-genuine. Since going sarging for my first time with a new friend and wing-man who is also new to the PUA world, the lights are starting to flicker here and there. I am starting to understand. I've always been able to say whatever whenever to almost anyone. However when I feel like I have a secret agenda or an intent / somewhere to lead the interaction I've clammed up and been more fearful. I need to remember to turn off my brain, have a FUN interaction and like a good book I've read 'Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway' (Susan Jeffers)
-When I did go sarging that first day we went to a mall on a saturday, and i used the Dental Floss opener on a one set, walking the other direction mind you. I just heard about it from my buddy in the parking lot and applied it right away. It worked! ( to my surprise! ) I didnt know where to go from there and left it at that. My only opener, and thus I enjoyed a good success percentage. (Hey anything to help a newbie to bolster his confidence right?)
An interesting thing about me. I dance Salsa and a few other latin dances quite well. I have yet to find out how to incorporate routines in the dance halls, but once i figure it out im sure it will go VERY well, since kino is SOOOOO easy to establish in that situation.
I work on Aircraft as an Avionics Technician. I am just starting this career yet am finding myself doing decently well the more and more I learn, and learn to apply myself.
I find establishing emotional connections rather difficult and would have to say that is one of my biggest goals. To be able to open myself up emotionally and genuinely Connect without fear of rejection, hurt or pain.
3 things I feel I need to work on would be
-Observing ego
-Calibration
-Escalating
-(among many others)
I want to give a shout out and a big thanks to the Moderators, the PUA's the MPUA's and anyone else that has helped with this community along it's creation and development. I applaud you all and wanted to say a BIG thanks =)
CHAT
) at the age of 21.