Hey guys,

Today I was introduced to a girl at work and I suspect she's a PUA!!

First of all she uses Gambler's moves of stealth attraction i.e. leg stroking leg "accidentally", touches me on the shoulder several times needlessly and whispers in my ears.

Secondly, she utilizes triangular gazing and always stares at my lips.

Thirdly, she gives me lots of compliance tests i.e. pass me X, pass me Y, hold Z for me.

Fourthly, she uses push/pull - one second she's all into me then the next she's cold as an ice cube.

I don't really care about her but just out of interest, what do you think?!?!

Cheers guys.

A girl is hitting on you, you don't have to be a PUA to do it...
Could be natural or accidental game; or maybe another guy told her about those things
Also the accidental leg touching isn't PUA stuff, neither is compliance tests, or push pull; they're just things used in the process

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

A lot of PUA is based on natural flirting, which women are usually inherently good at. Also large parts of PUA was directly taken from the way women get guys to be interested in them. Gurus have studied what women do and have consciously copied their techniques in some cases, to turn the tables on them and uses their own techniques toward them.

There are very few women PUAs out there. But when you're a hammer, the whole world seems like a nail.

My advice to you, would be to not over analyze situations too much. If you notice her flirting in a way that is familiar to you, instead of analyzing it purpose, just acknowledge and enjoy the fact that she is flirting with you.

If anything, this should have been a sign to you that she wanted you to escalate the interaction further and faster.

If she is giving you iois, and you're interested, then pursue! Women like a guy who takes risks and takes advantage of emotionally charged moments.

just take her home. and have fun

i know i'll get laughed at or bitched at or disagreed with...

but in my opinion,

women CAN'T be PUAs.

why?

PUA (pick up arts) is about learning to do something that is inherently a challenge.

it is a challenge for men to get women.

for women, there is no challenge.

they can pretty much have whatever man they want.

PUA is about learning to turn the tables of attraction and become the prize.

women are the prize by nature.

they don't need training.

christ, PUA is like counterespionage just to counteract their natural prize status.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Mack, why would you be laughed at, what are you, insecure? Work on your inner game..hah I'm kidding, what you said is completely true

Women are Natural at this - they have probably 10 yrs on guys when it comes to dating and Sex !

If this girl wouldn't have been from your work place I would have said she likes you and if she is attractive and emotionally sane then why not go for it !!

When a girl begins rubbing my leg that's typically when I unzip my pants and flop my dick out onto my pants, take her hand to it and go "Let's just cut to the chase, here's what you were looking for"