I got this girl from Romania I have been talking to.

She likes to go for walks around town. She likes talking about her ex's. She is a hb8. However she is kind of snoopy when it comes to my things. She wants to know all my personal stuff. I do not think she has had a good FB. I am cool with that, just not used to it.

However she is adorable and very analytical, I love the accent too. I would like to have her a couple days a week. How should I go about things with her. Because getting her back to my place seems to be the task.

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Take some advice from a guy whom has already been with a romanian girl.

1. They can be very old fashioned, like latina women. Romania is a left over from the Roman emprire, so they are a bit like Latina women. You will have to keep datin her for a while in public places and she will have high standards on how to be treated as a lady. But remember dat behind every slut defense there is great sexual treasure to be found and it wants to be found! But you should probably focus more on comfort making then with American girls.

2. I once dated a beautiful romanian girl; she never kissed me nor did we have sex, but I was so AFC back then that I helped her move her stuff....TWICE!!! So my advice is; don't let yourself get used.

3. I also had some nasty experiences with romanian people (my gf had a cleaning lady and she stole a lot of stuff). Make sure she is not making a sketch on your wealth when she is asking you questions. I suggest faking that you're in financial trouble and actually as poor as fuck and then check her reaction.

I really hope this helps man.

Greetz

Buccaneer

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

Whoa!! Now hold up there mister buccaneer!! Based on my experience, latin women, once attracted to you, are sex addicts! They are in my experience the most sexual women I have encountered. I think the hard part would be breaking her "Latina" shield which could be seen as "old fashioned".
They are gypsys you know

are you two in a relationship? if not then consider that you might get better advice in another section of the forum.

We are kind of in a relationship. Which poses another question in its self. Should I make ends to define our relationship. She seems to want to put a label on us all the time. I think she is just a bit shy at times and of course self conscious over-thinking. She is a sweet girl. I like her good side. I would just like to see more of her bad side. And at times it takes alot of game to bring out that bad side. It is not a bad relationship though. She comes by we watch movies go out for a walk or food and then we screw. I am more experienced then her in most areas. But I like my little girl, she is hott.

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I think that you are getting ahead of yourself. in your original post you said that she likes talking about her ex's. i would take care of this behavior first before i pursued anything more with her. what does she say about her ex's when she talks about them?

She almost gets offended by game sometimes. She acts silly and I embrace that. But when she is not around me she is all dropping lines like. "Hanging with your other girlfriends?" Its a conflicting attitude, sometimes I dont like that. But I just chill in the moment. I dont try to be a control freak. She is getting used to my style in and out of bed. Please if you got any advice for me regarding her let me know. I do like her a lot she is kind of lovable like a teddy bear. I have to train her in bed tho.... that takes time. Thanks man.

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What I consider to be my first true gf, one of the few girls I cared very deeply for, was Romanian, well American but Romanian decent. We dated for about a year, she was a 10 and a FREEEAK! Gymnast, short, fit, tight bod, tanned. We completely clicked too and she almost talked me into engagement till I cut it off lol nothing to do with the thread but noticed the title and that was by far my fav chick I've ever been with!

I am currently dating a Romanian HB8 myself, so perhaps I can offer some advice. They like as most women men who are in control and dominant. I have heard that culturally they can be very shy and but when they do open up they really let you in. My suggestion would be to take her on a few adventures, ice skating, musuems, just you and her let her know about you but keep yourself mysterious dont give her your life story just snippets.
You will likely have to make the first move, however, it depends on your game. She we actually were first friends for a few months and I was seeing other women, then we started hanging out more and I noticed she was flirting but very suttle, I maintained my ground and remained unresponsive, then one night F-close just like that!!! No formal dating, no hand holding, or prior makeouts. I basically spent time with her as a friend let the sexual tension build then F-close on a random night. Best part was that I was dating around. So my advice spend time with her and build the sexual tension in her while remaining relatively aloof.

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I had a talk with my HB8 girl. I told her that, "we are going to move in one of two directions." I also told her, "I would like to try dating in more of a relationship setting, but if you do not want that, we can keep things the same." I think that my words were forward and to the point.

My Idea is that I can see myself with a girl this awesome so I should give her the chance. If she shoots me down then so be it. I will move on and find someone else. I think that she likes me. I do not know what she wants yet as she told me she is thinking about it. It is hard on me, to put myself out there for her and not get a response right away. I think this is a big step in being a man about things with us.

I hope I get the chance to spoil her the way I feel I would like. She has to let me in, more then she is though.

I explained it to her that way. In a few days I should know the deal. If she is a more then friend or a girl friend. Ill keep ya guys posted.

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So she came over the other night and said that she would be cool with being in a relationship. I am happy, for now.

Hey what do you guys think about changing your relationship status in Facebook to; "In a relationship"

I feel like I am naturally going to be closer with her now. I would like some advice here though? see...

I often mess up in this area. I got great communication now! This is something new for my focus. We got this great vibe. The more I do get into pickup. The more I do feel like I am becoming the hot girl. lol

I am not worrying about anything. I have no sense of how long it will last with us. Oh, she also told me, that she has only been with 4 dudes. Me being one of them.

She is 19, HB8 in my book, kinda picky... Lovely blond hair. Slender, great boobs. Nice ass, not great though. A few lovely facial features. Cute and lovely and girly all at the same time most of the time. Sexy I got to work out of her every time. on the other hand, she is clumsy, ridiculous sometimes. She is a germ freak. I cant see much more bad... Its very nice, Uss..

Anything else I can do, I like to get a girls that I like; really liking me.

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She's just looking for a little reassurance by texting you stuff like that. It's not a sin for a woman to want that. But don't give in and say "oh you are my one and only yadda yadda." Send her something playful back. Or if it really does get to you that much then don't respond at all when she sends you texts like that. But you need to take a step back and see that she is just playfully messing with you. I have never been with a Romanian girl, but I have been with an Italian girl. Seems like the two types are opposite in many ways. She wants you to take control like most women do. She doesn't want you to crack under pressure. She wants you to keep your cool. If a relationship is what she wants, and if it's what YOU want then go ahead and be with her. One thing to keep in mind is that if she's Romanian then she will naturally be drawn closer to you if you show her that you are cultured. For now you need to play it cool and enjoy the first few days of your new relationship. You put in work for it! So just enjoy her.

Yes, we are a relationship now.

I talk to her about game sometimes late at night. She says she is clueless about how she plays. Its a nice experience to have a women so open to who I really am. Interesting tho (She acts as if she has no idea what is doing in regard to playing.) So when I tell her I pay attention, (unlike most guys,) She seems to respect the honesty. I know this is a shifty zone to be so forthcoming with my knowledge. However, I like the open communication in my relationship. Also I am 28 and she is 19. So I feel like she is not going to play me in regards to my feelings. It is very nice right now.

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Good for you brother. Then from here on out you should know what to do. You said she's 19 though? Just keep in mind what you have been through and how much maturing you have done since your were 19. She may be mature, but not on the same level as you.

So yes I am more mature then her.

I have conflicting feelings about her. I do not understand them all this is what I do understand.

I was not officially cheated on till my last relationship. 2 months in. I know and understand why. During this relationship I dragged my ex around for a wile. I have trouble letting go when I get hurt, I learned that about myself. There was a period of time that I call (More then friends). During that time I consider myself single. During that time I was sleeping with my HB8 and another HB6. So my issue is guilt; and some small draw to the HB6 as she is my ex girlfriend.

My Current Romanian girl asked me, have ever slept with someone else why we were together? I lied about this to her. Not a normal thing for me. However, I like her and want to keep her. What you guys already wrote for me helped me stay genuine, be myself and keep it cool around her.

I do not approve of the mixed feelings I get... It is all new to me to really feel this way. I enjoy the perspective that I get! I get taken away by my own thoughts here. My thinking runs in a circle..

My summary..
I so appreciate her.
But I so manipulate her by growing closer to her.

Am I Good
or bad

Circle one!

Cha Bra..

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