I've never been much of an alpha guy and have really been working on changing that, but this spot definitely has me a little psyched out.

Met a girl on NYE and she's been texting me a ton. I'm in the same town as her only for tonight and told her to meet up w/ my group of friends since we're going out. She sounds really excited about this and keeps saying stuff like "can't wait to see you", etc, etc. Only "problem" is she's coming out w/ a couple of friends that would be way too much for me to handle as a group w/ my current skill level (One is a legit 9 that I know decently well. She's the type of girl that almost always gets what she wants.)

My concerns: Fortunately I will be out w/ my friends, but how do I handle things if she tries to get me to meet with them? If she does end up meeting up with us, do you guys have any tips/tricks/games to keep her interested despite having her best girl friends around? How much attention should I be giving the friends?

Final concern: We did end up making out on NYE, so how would you guys handle that situation? Should I kiss her pretty much right away like it's implied or wait for a better time later in the night?

Thanks so much again for all the great advice guys. I don't even think I'd have gotten this far in the past so any progress is good IMO.

Don't be afraid to meet her friends. If her friends like you, they will give her the thumbs up. Women have a knack for letting their friends opinions mold their own opinions, so if you can get in her friends good graces, your chances of scoring with her will greatly increase.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

Use the same skillset you used on her with her friends. False disqualifiers, cocky-funny, indirect openers, etc. Just because you have a friend in the group doesn't mean you can lower your guard and relax. Treat this as if you're starting at square one with the group, but make lots of references to inside jokes/situations that you and the girl you know are in on. This will anchor you to her while allowing you to charm everyone else.

As far as the kiss goes, I wouldn't chase after one right away. Make her come to you. This is where routines that you can bet on come in handy, and here you bet a kiss.

What I do in these situation is simple. I act like i'm picking up her friends, just w/o the sexual stuff. So I act cocky/funny, remain cool, act really interested in what they have to say, and REALLLY REALLY make it all about them. That way when I leave, her friends will convince her to fuck me

IF you have any resistance, or a girl is giving you the cold shoulder, very simply state this to your girl in secret. Just say something along the lines of "Oh, I don't think Jamie likes me very much " than just focus on your girl. Most girls will usually tell what's up the friends ass- like oh she just broke up with so and so, or she's usually shy blah blah blah.

Hope this helps

Samex

Thanks for all the great advice guys. It always makes so much sense when you see it written right in front of you.