Found out my gf always used to go to guys which she friendzoned to rant about how bad I am, what I messed right now, etc. Just crying her heart out in their presence. They always assured her I'm a total dick, offered her to fight me or make out/fuck with her in front of me, etc. She always rejected their generous offers. She always came back to me after the ranting, though. These guys are no threat.

Is that common with women? (I mean, the ranting)
Is this common with "men"? (I mean, even back in my deepest AFCdays, I have never ever done something like that, even back then it sounded pathetic to me)

Sometimes I meet these guys in the dorm area, they're all like shouting and showing all the cool hand signals like "fuck off" but that's all. I was going to make things physicalwith one of them but phewwwwww......he just dissapeared.

Should I just ignore them? Or laugh at them (loud)? What's the dynamics here? I don't think it's wise to talk about them with your gf. So far I was okay with telling her "These guys are morons".

This behavious is relatively normal for girls to go back and complain about you in quite a vivid manner and then come back to you after their rant. Some girls go and complain to their girlfriends and some go and speak with guys, asking their advice and wanting a bit of insight.

In the cases involving the men the guys always agree with the girl about you being a d*ck. It's in their best interest to agree with her and make you look bad.

I wouldn't worry about her behaviour as most girls do something similar.

There are 2 things you could do:

- Act like it doesn't bother you and seem cool with the whole thing. Don't get angry with the guys as you'd be agreeing with her too if you were in their shoes. If she constantly picks problems then maybe she isn't the girl.....and it's a wide ocean of women out there.

- Alternatively just tell her she's causing you issues as guys are coming up to you causing issues. She her reaction to this and if anything changes.

Good luck.

Who cares, seriously.

If theyre friend zoned then surely they wouldnt mention making out/fucking her in front of you to her?

I've seen, heard and felt some things. And the angry look in their face when they see me tells something too. You can feel when someone is friendzoned. And I've mentioned making out or fucking to countless girls I had nothing with.

Depends on how bad she is feeling generally.

Women seeking comfort in the consensus of a social circle is extremely common. But to do so constantly and with their exes, not a good sign.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

They're not exes. She does it constantly, though. I take it as something she just has to do. But I am thinking if that's how to cope with that. I'm probably just overanalyzing it.

Tell her it's disrespectful to you that strange men know about your personal relationship. I wouldn't want my GF doing that. Tell her to stop. It's common for girl's to vent but not to other men.

And ignor the guys. The types of guys that sit around listening to girls whine about their boyfriends, are pussies and won't confront you about it anyways.