Alright so here's the deal, the thing for me is that I don't really think that I have problem at attracting the women but the biggest block for me is that

I JUST CAN'T FREAKEN CLOSED THEM

I'm a salsa dancer, so the place that I usually do approaches is at salsa venues. I usually go out and do salsa a lot but now there is this one particular night that I saw this one blond girl. I thought she was really cute, so I asked her to dance and typically in salsa place, when people finish dancing with their partner they'll politely say "thank you" and then move on to the next partner for the next song. Because of this, I do realize that my time is short coz otherwise she's going to move on to a new partner, so I try to build attraction with her by being playful while dancing and asked her to dance a few more songs. It worked and I can see that she did not see me as the same as other guys in the studio

BUT STILL I COULDN'T CLOSED

coz after we've been dancing a few songs she was tired and took off to the washroom. I didn't want to be like an AFC waiting for her to come back so I went on and asked new partner to dance with me. and boom, I didn't see her again that night

SO HERE COMES MY QUESTION, HOW WOULD YOU CLOSE HER (NUMBER AND KISS) IF YOU WERE TO BE IN MY SITUATION?

PLS REPLY COZ I REALLY DO NEED HELP, OR EVEN ANY FEEDBACK ON ANY OTHER PARTS OF MY PROCESS WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED

Damn thats an interesting situation.

Personally I would be like "make sure you find me after, we need to exchange #s" or something along those lines. Kind of depends how hot she is, how much attraction exists/is created in the 'dance-time.'

You kind of have to rely on physical looks, confidence etc on this one.
You might even have a better chance by talking to her after the dance and ask for # then.

thanks a lot man, that helps

sometimes i find my situation kinda funny and i just don't get it,

I'm a pretty decent salsa dancer, got a few girls actually approached to dance with me or even in life scenario I've had beautiful women tried to approached me but for some weird reason, when it comes to sealing the deal, I just freaked out and tried to justified reasons like oh she's not really my type or oh I dont' want to be in a relationship with this girl (even though I've always longing to have a girlfriend)

man, I don't know but I really need to get this out, so far that I've heard/ read, most of the solutions provided are for guys who tend to either have approach anxiety (which I don't think I do) or having hard time creating attraction (I can create attraction with girls who are about 7-8 but not yet those 9-10 type) So, I honestly having hard time trying to find material that are specifically for ppl like me

so, to anyone who understand what i'm talking about, (or have the same experience as I do) I would truly appreciate any constructive suggestions coz I really need some help

After 1 or 2 dances you pull her off the dance floor and take a seat over drinks.. Watch you hand placements while dancing aswell.. You show interest by the way you touch them, and a girl thats interested will let you go a lot further than you think.

Based on your post I can tell your playing it entirely too safe, your whining; which shows your attempts were feeble at best.

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I think you are relying too much on your dancing skills, what are you offering besides dancing? That's the question you need to ask yourself if you want to be able to close you have to improve your body language - it's not related with dancing- your eye contact and your conversation skills, try to create a connection and once you are able to do that closing is much easier.

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You wrote that you 'can't close' but you haven't written how you attempt to close. What's your method?