hi all

Im in the process of reading Neales book...

Ive been quite bad with girls all my life....but at times I can be confident and im not bad looking so sometimes I get girls kind of by chance.

but I really want to get the girls I want instead of the ones that are given to me. Its partly about having the confidence to be free to talk to any girl I choose.

I find it really hard approaching girls especially when they are in a group....and saying some of the stuff in neales book seems to far out to work....

but on the occasions that I have used his stuff...like kid-on magic it has worked...I oped a group of girls by asking them if they wanted to see a magic trick I picked up a pack of black business cards form the bar, asked them to pick a card then put it back in the pack. pretended to do some mind reading and blah blah it got them laughing coz obviously it was shit ...ended up kissing the hottest one.

but sometimes I just dont have the confidence ...Im simply not getting enough practise....

if any one has other good openers for me that would be great...especially ones for public transport or coffee shop ones....

then sometimes i can open but then don't know what the hell to say next... so it drools in boring shit like what did you do today, where do you work....which is ok if the girl seems responsive but sometimes they make it bloody hard...I just walk away feeling like a dick haha

any ideas ....