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| Energy16 | PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 11:37 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Feb 13, 2011 12:05 am Posts: 38 Location: Ireland | | I dont understand how someone like him could get average looking girls and even end up married to one.He is 3 feet tall and trapped in a wheelchair. I want to believe in this dude because its amazing if its legit and would inspire me alot to keep the hope up..Its just hard to believe. I dont wanna put the dude down though.
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| 0uch | PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:49 am | |
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| Kalel | PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2012 8:10 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:30 am Posts: 810 | | It's all about perception. For instance if you were to rate the attractiveness of people you love, you would see them as much more attractive than they objectively are, because your good feelings toward them influence that. At some point an emotional bond is strong enough to significantly influence a person's visual interpretation of you. They see past your short comings and flaws, because the good feelings they get from your personality is stronger than the good feelings they get from your appearance.
I know its hard to understand because guys need looks to be attracted to someone. But women are emotional creatures. And if you can get a woman to "feel" something for you based upon your personality, its actually more powerful than doing it by looks.
Now women are also usually very ego based creatures, so obviously they will gravitate toward good looking men and feel like they need/deserve them more than an unattractive men. But this is usually a prejudgement or a peer pressure decision on their part. Once they get to know someone intimately, it's a different story, looks are an afterthought when women gets emotional.
This is why you see hot women with ugly men. The ugly man was confident enough to approach and get to know the woman, and win her over with his personality, to the point that his looks aren't an issue.
A lot of puas have very poor and unfounded self-image issues. This causes limiting beliefs, which prevent them from approaching. If you look at Sean, if he can approach, pickup, and even marry good looking women. Then you shouldn't worry bout why it shouldn't be possible. You should realize that it is possible. And if he can do it with all of his very real limitations, that you too can do it with all of your self-imposed limitations.
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| peel | PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 8:06 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jul 17, 2011 11:15 pm Posts: 177 | | Anyone find any good vids of sean on Dating, Girls, and/or self-image?
I could only find a few on short clips of Man Transformation. _________________ Just trying to meet a 10.
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| SmoothOp | PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 8:09 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:07 pm Posts: 516 Location: Ontario, Canada | | It would be nice if he actually did but he doesn't. He is a motivational speaker. It's his job.
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