First off, Hello everyone in the community, I am looking to improve on my pickup skills, i don't want to be a man whore, i just want to be good with women. I am a reasonable good looking guy(19 Y/O, 6ft, Brown hair, brown eyes, 163 pounds). This is my first post and at this present moment i am not confident enough to do any day-game.

So as you can see in the title this question is about Night game and i appreciate any advice you give. When i go out with friends i go out to just have fun ( With the secondary aim being getting girls ) It doesn't ruin my night out if i don't get girls, but it slightly annoys me (This is my own fault i know). When i am clubbing, i mainly just dance, for like 3-4 hours :L (I Enjoy the music ALOT)

Almost always (8 out of 10 times) 1 girl a night will approach me while i'm dancing and we dance for a bit (Not intimately, just her copying me, I'm pretty sure that's an IOI) This might happen to every guy, i just though i'd inform you guys. I get eye contact from girls sometimes. ( Like 1-2 seconds ) I seem to break it, I know i shouldn't and from this point on i will NOT break it first.

I want to be able to approach the hottest, or one i find the hottest or cutest in the club and be able to at least K close or N close her. I am perceived by others as a very confident person, sometimes cocky-ish.

I want to Approach a girl Directly. With something like " Your the sexiest girl i've seen all night" Then just HOLD eye contact, then introduce myself, or if on the dancefloor just dance with her. I like the direct approach it seems to cut the bullshit out. I have never tried this approach but i will do when i next go out.

I would just like advice on how and where to go after approaching with this direct or any direct opener. And what to do in a club (Saying hi to everyone when i get in the club for social proof?? I've been a guest reader on this forum for a little while)

Thank you for taking the time to read this Post and once again i would really appreciate feedback and advice on this subject about Night/ Dance Game.

Hey there,
I think you should try day game first it would help you to improve your conversation skills but if you are only interested in night game you need to be aware that in night game body language is crucial, eye contact as well if you see a girl looking at you hold the eye contact and don't look away until she does.Ok?
Don't go out with the only purpose of hooking up with girls or getting laid or whatever, just go out and have fun. I'm sure you've heard about women and heir 6th sense, right? Women smell desperation

If you approach directly be aware that she might test you to know if you really are so confident - ask yourself if you can handle that- if you can just keep the conversation; if you use a direct opener you can talk about her clothes something like " This dress looks fantastic on you did you buy it or was it a gift? " and then you can say something like " You have a good taste in clothes do you also have good taste in men"
Remember that it's not what you say, it's is how you say it

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Hi FCgame, Cheers for your response.

Regarding the Eye contact, From now on, I'm not going to break it at all, and when she holds eye contact, I'm gonna just walk over to her, keeping eye contact (If she is aswell) And open her directly. I'm pretty sure this will show confidence.

The Daygame isn't my thing at the moment, I don't have the confidence to approach a random hot girl, even if she gives me IOI/s, It just seems intimidating. Later on into my journey i'm sure this is possible.

I always go out too have fun, like i said with there being a secondary aim off picking up women. ( Some Of our fellow aspiring Pua's go out with the intention of sarging, therefore the women's 6th Sense must be dreadful, not picking up on that)

If i were to get rejected after this direct opener, Should i just say "It was nice to meet you, Byeee" With a smile or just a smile with no words and a smile, to show that you don't really care.

Am i correct in thinking you shouldn't approach loads, because if your rejected by these girls, it lowers your value to other girls??

What I say is " You can't look at me like that and not talk to me, that's just not polite"
or " Do you always do that? Look at people like that"

If you get rejected just take it as a man and accept it, don't get angry, don't insult her or anything like that just leave and said something like " it was good almost talking to you"

Stop thinking about right or wrong!!! You are thinking too much, do whatever goes with your personality don't worry about what some guy wrote or said just do whatever you feel comfortable saying. Ok?

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First off, Hello everyone in the community, I am looking to improve on my pickup skills, i don't want to be a man whore, i just want to be good with women. I am a reasonable good looking guy(19 Y/O, 6ft, Brown hair, brown eyes, 163 pounds). This is my first post and at this present moment i am not confident enough to do any day-game. TO BE GOOD WITH WOMEN YOU NEED TO SHOW ABUNDANCE MENTALITY SO YES DATING MANY WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME WILL BE EFFECTIVE VS 1 WOMAN THAT IS THE SAD TRUTH(SCARCITY MODE)

So as you can see in the title this question is about Night game and i appreciate any advice you give. When i go out with friends i go out to just have fun ( With the secondary aim being getting girls ) It doesn't ruin my night out if i don't get girls, but it slightly annoys me (This is my own fault i know). When i am clubbing, i mainly just dance, for like 3-4 hours :L (I Enjoy the music ALOT) I USED TO DO THAT WHEN I STARTED, AND GIRLS USED TO COME UP TO ME, THIS IS NOT EFFICIENT, HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN DO DANCE AT THE BEGINNING OF THE NIGHT WHEN WOMEN ARE NOT READY TO BE PICKED UP( MY EXPERIENCE 11-12.30), THAT WAY WOMEN CAN CHECK YOU OUT, COME UP TO YOU, OR SEE THAT YOU ARE FUN, THEN YOU WILL FEEL THE CLUB SPAM CHANGE AND PICK UP TIME USUALLY AFTER 12.15 OR 12.30 DEPENDING ON THE CITY I AM IN SOUTH FLORIDA THAT IS WHEN YOU APPROACH( THE REASON YOU DANCE FOR 3 - 4 HOURS YOU ARE SCARE OF REJECTION, AND YOU WANT WOMEN TO THINK YOU ARE SUCH A COOL GUY AND APPROACH YOU, THIS COULD HAPPEN BUT NOT EFFECTIVE)

Almost always (8 out of 10 times) 1 girl a night will approach me while i'm dancing and we dance for a bit (Not intimately, just her copying me, I'm pretty sure that's an IOI) MAYBE/ MAYBE NOT, SOMETIMES WOMEN ARE ATTENTION WHORES..This might happen to every guy, NO NOT REALLY JUST THE DUDES THAT DANCE OR CALL ATTENTION i just though i'd inform you guys. I get eye contact from girls sometimes. ( Like 1-2 seconds ) I seem to break it, YOU BREAKING IT IS WEAK SHOWS LACK OF CONFIDENCE WHOEVER CUTS EYE CONTACT FIRST LOSES, I know i shouldn't and from this point on i will NOT break it first. GOOD!

I want to be able to approach the hottest, or one i find the hottest or cutest in the club and be able to at least K close or N close her NUMBER CLOSE IS WEAK UNLESS THE GIRL IS INTO YOU. I am perceived by others as a very confident person, sometimes cocky-ish. GOOD!

I want to Approach a girl Directly. With something like " Your the sexiest girl i've seen all night" WEAK DO NOT SAY THAT, SAY HEY YOU LOOK LIKE FUN SO I WANT TO COME HERE AND INTRODUCE MYSELF I AM BRAD PITT OR WHATEVER YOUR NAME IS, BUT THE BEST IS NOT TO TALK JUST OPEN WITH DANCING, I PERSONALLY NEVER EVER TALK, I JUST DANCE AND ESCALATE Then just HOLD eye contact, then introduce myself, or if on the dancefloor just dance with her GOOD. I like the direct approach it seems to cut the bullshit out. I have never tried this approach but i will do when i next go out. AS I SAID JUST OPEN DANCING...

I would just like advice on how and where to go after approaching with this direct or any direct opener. And what to do in a club (Saying hi to everyone when i get in the club for social proof?? I've been a guest reader on this forum for a little while). DO NOT TALK DANCE, DO NOT BE A DANCING MONKEY, AND START OPENING SETS BY DANCING, ALSO AS YOU BECOME A REGULAR MAKE EYE CONTACT HI FIVE, OR JUST SAY HI TO GUYS AND GIRLS...

Thank you for taking the time to read this Post and once again i would really appreciate feedback and advice on this subject about Night/ Dance Game. DANCE GAME IS VERY SIMPLE BUT AT THE SAME TIME COMPLEX, AND MAYBE IF YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING HARDER THAN ANY OTHER GAME, BUT THE EASIEST AND MOST REWARDING.

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