Hi,

I met this girl from a dating site. I messaged her telegraphing no interests in her looks and saying that I like her profile/personality. She messages back saying how she found my profile interesting too with enthusiasm. So the messages went back and forth with me demonstrating no interest in her physique whatsover, even though she's quite attractive. So as a close I said:

Nice to meet you too:-)

I usually love to chill out in downtown at cafes and shopping malls, why don't you tag along next time I go.
You definately seem like a person I would get along with... and I don't really know you all that well....but I'm going to listen to my instincts. Instincts my mother gave to me :p So here's the secret digits: 647 XXX XXXX. Text me and say hi or somethin. :p
(Similar to mystery's lines)

She texted me today, asking 'how are you' and 'how was your weekend'. It's quite interesting too because she cancelled her subscription the day after she texted me. I asked her why and she said that she just realized she's not ready for dating and she prefers to be friends. What's my next move?

treat this like a shit test, are you man enough to tell her what you want, or agree to her friends zone nonsense like an AFC?

tell her "i'm not ready for friends and prefer dating hot chicks"

then ask her out and tell her to wear something cute. If she fights you then bail on her and move on. But really move on anyway and fill your dating piepline regardless of how this goes.

I was thinking along the lines of meeting her for the second time and flick her 5 swithches (preselection, protector, risk taker, emote, leader). Just because a gal says she wants to be friends it doesnt mean the game is over. I am still in the attraction (A1) phase. There are guys who play the gay role until sex.