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| kneehowguys | PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 5:16 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Oct 15, 2011 3:26 am Posts: 81 | | What are some good examples of positive misinterpretation?
Some I've heard:
- she tests/resists coming home with you/ignores you-> you say "aw what a flirt you're shy now?"
60 says to keep reframing it like this, but I'm not sure how to do this. What do I just say she's shy everytime once of those three things happen or just turn my back and leave? What are ways to reframe as if she is shy/likes you?
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| detox75 | PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 7:31 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Oct 08, 2011 4:56 pm Posts: 1904 Location: Portland, OR | | reframing int his context just means adding another helpful meaning to the interaction
example frame: suspicious, funny, naughty, teacher/student, suspect
so you can re-frame
"Do you have to get up early to work the fryer or come over to see my cat"
"I want to show you my rare books collection, you said you like to read right?"
"I have this cd i want you to listen to, Lady gaga has to be getting old by now"
these ant great but you get the idea. However tying to get a chick home with you that doesn't comply isn't easy. You may have to build more attraction and rapport then re-frame and try again. Or just number close an move on
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