The situation I am in right now is that I am seeing this girl on a regular basis because she attends the same college as me. I see her at parties on weekends and we watch a movie on saturday nights. Anyway, I have been cuddling with her at these late night movies for the past like 2-3 months (note: the movies weren't every weekend). In the past two weeks I have cuddled with her in a bed and then last night I made out with her in her bed and slept there. We made out 3 times over the course of the night. So far the situation doesn't seem to have a dilemma because things are moving forward, granted they are moving really slowly. The dilemma comes in because she considers me to be a friend but i am still moving forward with her sexually. Also this is a text she sent me tonight: By the way I better not be hearing you complain about me leading you on because of last night, and that will not be happening again. She has said things like these in the past yet it has persisted every time. This is a strange situation for me to be in and I like this girl so any advice to help me respond to the text she sent and how to carry on in my relationship with her would be much appreciated. I would like to definedzone myself if that is indeed where I am.
Thank you all.

Ryan this girl seems to be wanting to have some fun but she doesn't perceive you as a sexual partner. The reason can be because you too nice to her or you didn't get sexual with her early on but don't worry there is still a way. Number one understand that this girl is not the only girl in the world so go out and game other girls. Invite her to parties and chill and have fun with other girls and don't give her sexual attention to her like cuddling or making out as you did before. If she tries those things on you tell her in a nice way that YOU just want to be friends with her. Once she sees that you have plenty of girls and plenty of fun she'll start to think "why does he hook up with those girls but not me?" at this point girls get vulnerable because they have lower value and therefore more receptive. Then she will start to try to get your attention. At that point you should give her minimum attention and instead create sexual tension. Let that sexual tension gather up until its unbearable and then kiss her and f-close at which point she will be committed. As far as her texts go make humor of them. Like for example she said

She:By the way I better not be hearing you complain about me leading you on because of last night, and that will not be happening again

You should respond something like this: " ohhhh you wont be hearing me complain only seeing me complainnnn"

But everything else is good. Good luck !

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Thanks for the reply, I like your advice and I do agree with you that the situation is salvageable. As for the text response I am still stuck as to how to reply. Does anyone else have any input? Thanks

sounds like a giant waste of time to me, girls love kissing, girls love hugging, girls love flirting, girls love sex, it is your job to escalate not hers, look up what lmr is, be more damn persistant in getting a finger bang, and make damn sure if you get the finger in there that the dick follows, don't ask, just do it, she will stop you, if she is not down, just read her body language, if she is enjoying the ride, whip out your dick and put her hand on it, she starts tugging away, and there is a fountain leaking from her clam, just put that dick in there, and WAALAA out of the friend zone, (CAUTION: this could also lose her as your friend, but you get to choose, possibly lose her, possibly get laid, up to you how much you value her as a friend, but play it safe and there is a really good chance, you are stuck in friend hell forever) if you can't break the gap and beat that lmr, then fuck it, not worth it, she is not interested, but at least give it an honest shot, time won't fix this shit, it will only make her less interested in sleeping with you, and you will realize you wasted more time, 2 weeks at most tops to work on a girl, give her up to 3 flakes, if it takes longer then 14 meetups to f-close, and you have been actively trying, then it was all a giant waste of time, GIANT WASTE OF TIME, when you are really comfortable with escalating and being assertive with it, 3 meetups tops, once you got isolation that is all you need for a yes or a no, and if it is a no, it is a waste of time, on any given night if you go to a place with 20+ girls, there is a really really good chance, one of them will sleep with you that night as long as you meet her, get her invested, and escalate, and isolate and the logistics are good

GOOD LUCK