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I'll tell you one secret of PU that I understood...

but first-your vulnerability ace is just a part of your variety ace...

What I mean is-variety-should not only be about conversational topics, but in everything. Variety in conversational topics makes her think that she understands u better, variety of activities/places u've been to, makes her think like she's known you for a long time(even if its not the case-that's why changing venues is important in building comfort) and finally...most important variety...variety in emotional states that she is in when with you.

David De Angelo: "Take a woman on roller coaster of emotions"-idk if David understood it back then but this is how you make a woman fall in love with you.

One way, to do this, is to first get yourself into that emotional state + a topic that is on supports the theme(in your case vulnerability). You can go from fun to sad, to scared, to whatever emotion you like, just make sure to start and end on positive note.

I liked this post, it was definitely worth reading for someone like myself who is about developing deep passionate and exciting relationships.

I've gotten quite good at getting relationships started and even moving into the initial phases, however I've found that they tend to burn hot and burn themselves (and me) out. The next step in the evolution of my game is sustaining those same relationships and these are exactly the key things I've been working on developing, so I really appreciated how well you wrote your tips!

I think despite being your "First Ace", the Ace of Mystery is so incredibly key and something I never truly developed fully. I've got such a diverse background and so many things seem to end up being asked about by people because they ask where I learned things and in the past I never bothered to hold anything back. I think information should be freely shared, however, with the aim of mystery in mind, lately I pay very close attention to how other people talk and build up interest by being vague. I think Dexter is a great character to study for anyone looking to develop how they are perceived by those around them.

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