so i met this hb8/9 last week talked for 2 mins. i later added her on fb and i used some off the fb opner on this forum along with lots of negging and genrallygot atteraction. anyway she offered to meet me for coffee with her friend and even gaveme hernumber without asking.
once i met her in real life i froze up. i mean im normally a quiet guy and the second i opened my mouth i forgot all my routines and calibration and turned into a AFC. i made the whole meeting awkward ( they even kept saying ur so awkward to talk too).
anyways at the end the hb asks me "why should we be friends" and basically asked me to qualify myself. she asked "if our convos are gonna be this awkward and quiet how are we gonna be friends". i literally froze up coz i didnt know what to say and i just said "u cant ask me why we should be friends that makes itmore awkard". i think that was a shit test and i think i failed coz i ended up stuttering while answering her questions. she then said to her friend that they should leave. i then kinda explained to her that maybe meeting one-on-one would make me be better but she kinda decided that i wasnt the same attitude that i had on the fb convos.

how should i reopen her on fb and rearrange a meetup day to fix this.

don't reopen. you can't fix this.

forget facebook. go talk to "real" girls. it will be less awkward next time.

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hehehe, absolutely true!

to that i want to add:
kingk12, please dont use fb openers. dont use text game or any other game that doesnt take place in real life. you want to conquer the awkward convo's? Go out and talk to people. its the best way to learn.

cheers!

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King don't worry about what happened with this. It's over and it failed but not because your a loser or not able to talk to girls or anything like that. Rather you failed simply because you don't have enough experience talking to girls. When I look back I wonder how in the world I am so good right now at talking to girls. The answer is practice. No matter what people will tell you the only thing that really helps is experience. Just go out and know this "the more girls you approach and talk to the better you will get". Just keep that in mind and you'll be good.

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Stop using canned material and lines it makes you sound like a douche. Also hate to break it to most the guys on this board, most women can see right through your pickup schitck. Be real, not a dumbass spouting stale material he read online

That one is a dub .. Thats what happens when you steal someone elses lines.

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