Hooked up with this girl a year or so ago. She wanted a relationship i said no. We flirt by text every couple of months.

She sent me a text saying "I really miss you"

I replied...

I miss your smile 9/10. Your kisses 8/10. Your bosiness, 1/10
Over all 11/10.


She replied.

I dont know how to take that lol! Bosinesss!!! Im not bossy but you miss it a lil... hahahahaha I miss you an overall 10/10 becuae i miss you as everything that you are that makes you my lovley friend who I love inside out.

How should I reply. In no rush but want to keep the game open.

don't reply to this.

I would wait for a week and text her "Come by tonight. We'll grab a movie."

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I have to return some videotapes...

Its a BBM so she will know ive read it. Shes away for a few weeks working. Havnt actually seen her since summer.

Shes obv testing the water. Just didnt know if anyone had a smart reply or maybe ignoring is the best.

Just cause you read a text, doesn't mean that that you have to reply. The fact is that chick is testing you. And was testing you with "I miss you". And you kinda failed on that one. And now you're looking for some witty comeback. It's not the words that get you the girl. It's your mindset.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Very true. Then I will just ignore it. Thanks! lol

Out of interest. In the future if you get a girl admitting that they misss you by text how should I respond. I thought mine was quite a good push pull response.

Why do hot girls seem to have this fascination with having an endless stream of unsexy guys as their 'friends'? Given that they're hot and most probably know it, how do they possibly imagine that any guys ever want to be just their friend?! Surely hot girls know that every single guy they ever encounter wants to fuck them, and are not the slightest bit interested in being platonic friends? It's either sex or no sex, why on Earth do they bring the irrelevant 'friend' concept in?

Or is 'friend' just girlspeak for 'ugly loser I won't fuck'?

LJBF = Loser Just Banned from Fucking her

I think mind set is the most important. Just like you dont care. If you genuinely dont care, you are placed at a much higher level.

I was in that situation a month ago with a girl i sarged a year ago. pushed her too far back then and she backed off.

girl: "you've moved to my hood and you didn't invite me for a cup of coffee. shame on you."
me: "sorry, but i've lost my phone and dont have this number." actually, i have just deleted the number.
girl:"ooouuu, you don't remember me. and i used to be Ivana#3"
me:"didn't realize it was you. we should totally grab a coffee on sunday evening."
girl:"yeah, sure."

not special lines, just frame. MY FRAME.

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I don't see anything wrong with being a girls friend... Guys are such losers when it comes to concepts like this. They feel its the end of the world if they're friend zoned. Like are you kidding me? Be her fucking friend, simple. I still get friend zoned every now and then and I sleep with plenty of women. And im perfectly fine being friend zoned. They usually hook me up with they're other friends anyway. You don't have to sleep with every girl you talk to on the phone or text.. You'll learn a lot from a friendship position if you just accept it for what it is..

Toddles

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How Do I reply to "I really Miss you?"

Anyone got a good reply?

Uh, quit playing games, I'll bet your dollars to donuts the guys above are virgins. Tell her you're available to hangout Monday night.