Are you kidding me? You're hopeless... you've been saying the samething over that you understand what people are saying but you keep asking the same question over and over and over again if you should respond if she contacts you. You make me a better man because you are so pathetic. IGNORE EVERYTHING! DELETE EVERYTHING! FORGET EVERYTHING! Seriously he does make a point that if you have so many girls in your pictures why the f do you bother with this girl. Just bang the f out of the other girls. The only reason people have oneitis is because they have no other options! If you have options then you wouldnt care! Seriously it's been 4 pages of the same response to your questions of just the same answer of letting her go. LET THE F GO of her.

Guys its been over a week since I last had any contact with her. Christmas came and went and to my surprise ( or maybe not), I didnt even get a Happy Xmas Text.

Anyway I feel much better with the situation but still want to play it right that when she does end up back in NY we are "friends" and "hang" like we originally did and will prob then end up fucking. Essentially I was her fuck buddy.

I feel that by not having any contact at all makes us become strangers and when she does end up back in NY it will be "weird" between us.

I know i have read that no contact is the best but doesnt that just make it look like I have sour grapes or does it show that Im just too busy to care?

She obv didnt like it when she was posted on Facebook as another girl and a hanger on. I dont know if thats becuase she doesnt want to be associated with me or just doesnt want to look like another one of my conquests.

Im happy to literally just stay silent but after such a long time when we spoke all the time and hung all the time I find it weird I wouldnt even send her a Merry Christmas or Happy New Year. Then again there is nothing stopping her doing that.

So again I just want a perfect set up of being Im really very cool with everything and dont really care, oppposed to how I left it as she lost a great guy blah blah blah.

Lastly If your advice is still RADIO SILENCE if I should receive via BBM a Happy New Year how are you? Do I respond? If I dont doesnt that make me look like sour grapes or am I just too busy? Id respond to other friends....

Sorry to re ask this but I just want your thoughts.

Merry Christmas!

It appears to me that your attitude is causing you to attract the sort of woman you feel this ^ way about. Over and over, and it will keep happening until you figure out a new way to view woman and/or relationships in general.

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lol.. yeah dude...

Ignore ignore ignore.... If she messages you happy new year, which SHE won't just ignore it...

Are you honestly going to let a woman uses you for a rebound, leaves you for her ex, and then come back to NY to use you again?

Get some dignity, this woman crushed your heart and didn't care one bit, while shes now off with some other guy. Does she even deserve you? Your attention, time, or even a Happy New Year?

Get some pride bro, I understand what you are going through but don't let your emotions detach you from reality. Hell, I live in NY too, so I'd hook you up with some ass from one of my chicks if you need it.. Man to man.

Peace & Love

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nah .. i just read so many messages about guys being in the same situation ( including myself ).. after a while it becomes normal and you desensitize.

this post should have been death after my and signafc previous replies.. the guy is just ranting about shit because it's too hard for him to make the right descision.

who said that life is easy.. just fucking end contact

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So, How's it going so far buddy?

I'm going through a similar situation.

I really hate to say this, but whenever I feel the urge to chase or message this chick who stomped on my heart, I do a read through of all of Hotcold's posts, and it stops me dead in my tracks.

Everything Hotcold has texted, I've wanted to text as well. Only now, I'm able to see how needy and afc it truly is.

I really do want to thank you Hotcold for helping me, even if it's at your expense. I am truly sorry that you are going through this, but if others can learn from your mistakes, hopefully you went through this for a reason.

Hope the New Year brings you a new perspective.

Thanks for the help guys. Actually since New Year Ive really hardly thought about her at all. Went out there and started acting like I usually do and within a few hours had found a great girl in a club and had taken her home.

I think the whole process of not really caring is Key. I really now see that I was the rebound guy who fell in love.

Really I should have accepted I was a rebound guy enjoyed it for what it was and moved on.

Thank you all

yah good clarity now =)

always manage expectations for yourself too!

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